Girl loses virginity while breaking the hymen, which is a barrier at the entrance to the vagina. The integrity of the hymen indicates the purity and innocence of girls, the lack of sexual contact with a man. The hymen protects the internal genital organs from infection, bacteria, so we are talking about purity. To lose virginity can not only after the first sexual intercourse. The hymen may rupture due to mechanical damage, injuries, Masturbation. Careless introduction of the finger or a tampon into the vagina is sometimes a cause of a violation of the integrity of thin "films".
The loss of virginity is different for each girl. Someone is experiencing severe, unbearable pain, for some it was not such a terrible event. The rupture of the hymen may be accompanied by bleeding. If all went well, a small quantity of blood. Some of the girls and did not appear to be any discharge. The hymen is quite elastic. After the first sexual intercourse she can not be broken, but simply to extend along the vagina.
The sexual partner plays an important role in the process of losing my virginity. From his manipulation, relationship to the girl, care will depend on the physical and psychological status of the female partner. The first sexual act is remembered for a lifetime. If a girl will experience massive pain, then she may develop a phobia. She no longer have access to their body any man.
For loss of virginity is better to use special posture. The girl must lie on your back, put it under his pillow or towel rolled with a roller. Partner is on top. This position will allow less painful to break the hymen, since the partner can control the whole process and to enter the penis smoothly and to the required depth.
Before intercourse to relax not only the girl but the guy. There is to be a responsible action. The girl needs to discuss in advance with your partner all the moments, to tell that he is her first. This relationship of trust, joint discussions, the dialogue will help further in love couple. Partner should be sensitive and attentive, to try to calm her, if she gets hurt.
After intercourse you should take a shower, thoroughly rinse the genitals. Sexual relationship is better for a few days to wait, as the place of breaking the hymen wound is formed. She needs to heal.