The first stage of the birth of a serious relationship – sympathy. Every woman is nice to know that she likes your new friend. If a man often calls looking for a meeting, seeks to be alone with you, you do, at least, interesting. Going on a date, note, the behavior of your companion in person. A man who likes you, will carefully listen to you, even if you are not too skilled storyteller. As you know, the men love with your eyes. Therefore, you should not confuse long admiring glances that are directed solely to your side.
So, things are progressing, and there comes a time when that's supposed to sound offer hands and hearts. Wait you this sentence or not, you can guess by the behavior of your beloved. A man with serious intentions will definitely introduce you to their friends and parents. His love to you also suggest frequent phone calls, the willingness to spend with you all free time. If need be, in love with a fan is willing for you to sacrifice important things (meeting with friends, a favorite hobby).
If all of the above in the behavior of men is not observed, there is a reason to think about his carelessness towards you. That you for it – just a passing fancy indicate some aspects of behavior. For example, windy cavalier may not once to postpone or reschedule a meeting with you thinking, at times, not too reliable explanation. Believe me, the problems of friends for the love of men is not as important as the opportunity to stay close to him dear woman. Therefore, such illogical and unnecessary behavior cannot be other excuses, except for serious relationship to you.
Another obvious sign that the man did not cherish you, - increased attention to the opposite sex, despite your presence. If he is not shy about being near you, looking at other women openly telling you about ex girlfriends and, especially, compare you to them, then nothing but low self-esteem, these relationships you will not.
Disappointing conclusions arise also in the case when a man shows complete indifference to your problems, successes, attempts something to discuss with him or ask for advice. Knight with frivolous intentions simply do not like to listen to you. Often, in such relationships the man you want just sex. Think about whether to spend themselves into soulless lover, or long time to continue the search tender, attentive, caring husband.
Many women to the last attempt to save the relationship, doomed to break. But if the man feels for you serious feelings, it is unlikely you will be able to permanently keep it near yourself. So remove the rose-colored glasses and try to mentally prepare for the breakup if your boyfriend calls you less and less, or stops responding to your calls. He often busy for you? Prefers to spend time with friends instead of meeting you? Openly leering at other girls? Your affirmative response to at least one of these questions is clear evidence of the futility of this relationship.