Advice 1: How is the baptism of a child

A child's christening is a significant event both for him and for parents. But to the sacrament of baptism took place quietly and without any doubt, will need training. Previously, according to the Church rules the parents were not allowed to be present during the sacrament of baptism of their child. Now these rules are almost not hold.
A child's christening is a significant event both for him and for parents. This Orthodox ceremony symbolizes the acceptance of the child into the Kingdom of God and his Church birth. A child is born a sinner, the sacrament must be baptized to remove his sins and to entrust a guardian angel who will always protect and defend it.

Preparation for the sacrament of baptism



A few tips that will help parents and godparents parents to prepare for such an important Church rite.

1. If parents do not have the usual Church, which they regularly visit, the preparation for baptism begins with her choice. It is best to choose a Church based on your feelings - you may want to defend the service in a few churches.

2. A conversation with a priest. Negotiations with conducting the ceremony the priest will help you to feel his attitude and to rite, and to the children. Check with the priest, how will the rite - full immersion or just with the ablution of the baby's head. Collectively will be baptism or individually.

3. Decide at what age you can baptize your child. Usually, children are baptized after 40 days after birth, but there are exceptions.
The best age for baptism – from three months to six months. It is believed that at this age the children best tolerate the ritual.


4. Responsibly approach the choice of godparents. Remember that they are responsible before God for your child and should raise his godchild in the Orthodox Church.

The rite of baptism



The ceremony is held in the Church or baptistery is the separate room in which is the basin of Holy water baptismal font. The baptism lasts an hour and a half, depending on the number of children.

After the priest gives a sign, the future godparents make in the temple wrapped in white diaper (crismo) of the child. The priest explains where to stand, asks his questions. One of the godparents holding the baby, the second in his left hand, holding a candle, right - cross.
It is desirable that during the baptism the girl kept the godfather, the boy's godmother.


Baptism begins with the reading of his sponsors in the baptismal vows. As baby is still small and can not answer the questions of the priest, for him to answer all questions and renounce Satan godparents. After reading prayers, the priest anoints with the oil of the body part of the baby - forehead, mouth, eyes, ears, nose, chest, arms and legs. Then imposes on the child's hands, symbolizing the Lord's protection. Godparents become close with plunge pool and grace "Symbol of faith", promising to renounce the devil and to fulfill God's commandments.

The priest blesses the water three times washes the baby's head or dips it into the font. At this time performed and cross the anointing of peace, or Chrismation. Bathing baby is the second birth. Now he is under the protection of his guardian angel, and the responsibility for it rests with the godparents.

The priest puts on the little cross, the godparents dress him in a baptismal dress, a girl and a cap or kerchief. In a sign of submission to God the Father vestigal baby-cross strands of hair.

Godparents with their godson or goddaughter three times bypass the plunge pool. It symbolizes the emergence of a new member of the Church. Girls bring to the God's gate and is applied to the icon of the mother of God, and the boys sneaked into the altar. In this case there is only the father with the child. The churching may be accompanied and first communion.

The child's mother prays for her baby and makes three bows. The rite of baptism is completed in the Church books shall be recorded on the baptism and parents of the cross or a Certificate of baptism.

Advice 2 : What you need for a christening

For the sacrament of baptism (christening) requires compliance with several rules and the acquisition of certain items of a ritual nature, which is inherent in the Orthodox Church at all. In addition, in recent years more and more popular is reviving a tradition to buy a special christening outfits and store them for the rest of their lives.
What you need for a christening



There are no specific requirements for age godparents (godfather of fonts), but the canons of the Church indicate that godparents may not be blood parents of the child, the people of other faiths, atheists, as well as minors. It is also prohibited to choose as godparents mother and father, spouses or a couple that intends to marry. It is desirable that godparents together with someone from the biological parents of the child (most often the father, as the mother after delivery up to 40 days in the temple is not allowed) ended up visiting the Church in advance and agreed on the sacrament.

The expenses for the baptism usually take on the godparents of the child, who pay the cost of the ceremony and baptism cross for my godson. In some cases, future godparents can give to your spiritual child and the special sets of clothes that baby will wear before the visit to the temple and after the sacrament.

In addition, in any case, for baptism requires two towels, stacked in the shape of a cross, candles that will keep in the hands of all attendees invited to the sacrament in the Church.

During the baptism all attendees must be wearing a consecrated crucifix, even the simplest, made of wood). Women must wear dresses or skirts of an appropriate length (no higher than knee), and their heads at the entrance to the temple and in the room for the sacrament have to be covered with head scarves and scarves. An exception may be made only for little girls.

For the ceremony the godparents must be purchased in advance at the Church consecrated crucifix with chain of sufficient length that will allow you to freely put on him over the head during the baptism.

No specific reference to the day on which it is possible to baptize a baby – it can be done at any time, even in adulthood, but in Orthodoxy the kid usually baptized between 7 and 40 days from date of birth. The Church for the sacrament, day and time must be arranged with the priest who will perform the ceremony.


Advice 3 : How to conduct a christening

Baptism – the Orthodox sacrament when the person is reborn again to pure life with faith and God in the soul. The baptism of your child's celebration doubly heartwarming and light, and to take part in it I want all the friends and family of the baby. In this case, you need to consider in advance of the christening of the child and to decide how you will spend them.
How to conduct a christening
Instruction
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Go to the Church in which you plan to baptize the baby, and discuss with the priest all the details of the baptism: when to hold, what to bring, how to dress. Better if you do it for one or two weeks before the holiday, to have time to prepare everything in advance.
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Choose godparents for your baby. They can be relatives or friends with whom you have friends often see each other and communicate. After all, becoming godparents, they commit themselves to help the child to gain confidence, to become kind, fair and honest. Please note that the godparents of one child cannot be married couple, because in this case they are spiritual brother and sister, and marriage between relatives was forbidden. Godparents must go to Church to acquire the necessary attributes for baptism (the cross, the towel, the icon) and learn how to prepare for the sacrament.
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At the ceremony in the Church, as a rule, invite only close relatives and godparents of the child. Maybe someone will want to photograph the highlights of the christening - this is also agree with the priest in advance. The rest who want to be close with the baby on this memorable day you can invite home for dinner.
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Decorate the room in which to receive guests: the ceiling let the little white, pink or blue balloons (depending on the sex of your child), bedside tables place figures angels and cut them out, hang airy tulle not only on window but also on the entrance to the room, securing it in several parts in the form of an arch. A great addition would be white roses and candles.
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Gala dinner you can prepare on their own, however, on fasting days it should be mostly meatless meals. According to ancient tradition also on the table, be sure to put a sweet porridge, and all the guests have to eat on the stomach, as if wanting the baby to not only grow healthy, but also to be strong in spirit. As a christening is a religious holiday, abstain from alcohol or limit yourself to light red wine. Pre-order your in pastry departments of the cake in the form of an angel or buy candy in the form of angels, which you can hand over at the entrance of each guest. You can also give each guest a small card with words of gratitude, on this auspicious day, they were close to your family.
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If you want to play at the holiday table, pick up fun games and fun, which will allow guests to return to childhood and appreciate them. You can divide all attendees into two teams, captain of the first may be the godfather, as captain of the second godmother. Prepare humorous questions relating to the upbringing of the baby, or competitions for speed changing and coloring drawings. And maybe you'll sing karaoke to your favorite hits from my childhood. In addition, you can make a comic lottery: for a symbolic price to sell raffle tickets, and during the draw to give pacifiers, candy, little cars or dolls.
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The most important thing – that the day of the christening in the house was not abuse and controversy to our hearts was joy and happiness.

Advice 4 : How to dress your baby for christening

The christening of a child is called "the second birth", because this is a very important event in the life of an Orthodox family. At the same time is a very important and troublesome event for parents. It is very important to prepare for it in advance, invite the godparents, relatives, gather for christening accessories for baby, dress him appropriately.
How to dress your baby for christening
You will need
  • A large towel, sheet, baptismal shirt, hat or kerchief for girls, briefs or disposable diapers, socks.
Instruction
1
If the christening is held in the warm time of the year, problems with clothes for toddler should arise. You can wear a cotton suit boy or light dress girl, do not forget about the scarf or a hat. It is very important to choose clothes with simple clasps or even without them, because in the course of the christening will need to promptly remove clothing from the child. If he is very young, prepare the diaper, to put it on a special table for changing clothes. A large part of the ceremony holds a baby naked or in a diaper.
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If a child is going to baptize in the winter, you need to prepare warm, easy to unbutton the suit, made of cotton or wool socks and a cap. Clothing is removed at the beginning of the christening, and before lowering into the font the child spends time in the hands of one of the godparents naked. He can put on socks and wrap in a warm towel or blanket.
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After bathing the child should quickly be wiped away, and the father will clothe him in a shirt prepared in advance of the baptismal set — as a rule, it includes a sheet, baptismal shirt and cap. You can choose a set by yourself or to entrust this responsibility on the shoulders of one of the godparents. Socks christening sets usually are not included. Also don't forget to prepare in advance baptismal towel and grab a few diapers and two or three of the disposable diaper.
Note
During Orthodox christening baby wear three times: first remove the clothes that baby came to Church and put on the baptismal shirt and a cap, then on top put things for departure home or to the celebration. After the christening of the child, usually do not wash a few days, to specify exactly how many can have a father.

Baptismal shirt and a towel not washed, and stored throughout a child's life.
Useful advice
It is not necessary to wrap the baby in a large amount of clothing, even in the cold season. If it is hot or have to plead with his disguises, he can start to be nervous and to cry.

Advice 5 : When can we baptize a child

Parents wishing to baptize their child, can be a lot of questions regarding the rules of the sacrament. One of the most common questions - what age child can do it.
When can we baptize a child
According to Orthodox rules, to have a child baptized in the Church have on the fortieth day after birth. But few want to christen your kid exactly adhere to the rules. Mainly the decision about the time of the baptism is taken by the family on the basis of own ideas about convenience.

Why for baptism choose a specific day



Those wishing to baptize a child in the summer motivated the decision with that in warm weather, after bathing the child is not cold. Sometimes the date of the baptism trying to coincide with another event – for example, last years old. Someone wants to chose baptism to a weekend day, when most of the family will be present in the Church. There are parents who baptise a child in infancy just don't want to.
Parents can choose at what age to baptize your child. If you have difficulty in the solution is always simply to consult with the priest.


Clearly defined rules in this matter. With regard to the fortieth day after birth, this is totally optional – can be dubbed sooner or later, no matter how much the child is under. Just should not put off baptism, if we made a decision about this, unless absolutely necessary in the long term.

At baptism, before the time of the birth of a baby forty days, there is one caveat - mother is not always allowed to attend the baptism of their child. Some priests may insist that the woman never went to Church - after the delivery she had not yet purified.

At what age you can baptize the child



Child christen perhaps from birth – in special cases, for which there is a special prayer the baptism of the fear for death. This prayer over endangered a child can read on their own, sprinkled it with water – will suit any. Perfect thus the Ordinance would then have to Supplement in the Church.

It is possible and from the ninth day of life to make a full baptism – Church rules it is not forbidden, but the priests can be their own point of view, therefore, to rush at random into the first Church is not necessary.

It is believed that in days of Church holidays and in the post no child should be baptized. You can, but in the temple it is necessary to agree about it in advance. It should be borne in mind that during the holidays the congregation is very much, and the child will feel better with a small number of people and a relaxed atmosphere during the sacrament of baptism.
It is believed that before baptism the child has no Guardian angel, and it is vulnerable to any damage.


In any case, when would you not want to baptize the child, first we must choose a Church and talk with the priest. This can make parents and family, and those who will be godparents. After the conversation you will be given a leaflet which says that you need to take with you for a ceremony, how to prepare for godfather and godmother.

Advice 6 : What day is best for child baptism

The birth of a child is a wonderful and long-awaited event in any family. In honor of this wonderful event Christian parents baptize their baby, thereby expressing great gratitude to the Lord and entrusting him with their child. However, to perform the sacrament of baptism is available in all sorts of days.
What day is best for child baptism
First of all, it should be noted that in the Orthodox tradition there is no strictly set day for baptism. Parents can choose any day that you see fit. Of course, the Church encourages you to baptize the baby in the first year of life, but this is optional.

The baptism according to the canons



Best day for baby baptism according to the Orthodox Ministers is the 8th day after his birth, because according to legend it was this day baptized the Son of God, Jesus Christ. Also kids decided to baptize on the 40th day after their birth.

From the point of view of the Orthodox faith, the boy's mother is impure for 40 days after birth, so the entrance to the temple is closed to her and her newborn stay nearby is essential.

Often the day of baptism is selected in accordance with the day of a Saint, in which the parents intend to name the baby.

The christening of "secular"



Secular religious tradition (and there is aimed at popularization of religion) the most favorable time for the christening considers the period of life of the child until the child reaches four months, because at this time the baby is able to very easily carry this procedure. At such an early age, the child is almost always in sleep state, so it hardly scared of strangers, do not cry.

Baptisms in the year, too, became traditional, they are often combined with the celebration of the actual birthday. The Church is loyal to such kind of events, but Ministers strongly recommended the boy's parents and godfather come to the sacrament, confession, and service to participate in the conversation, which is held usually the day before the baptism. The priest will talk about the sacrament and about the responsibilities of godparents.

In most parishes for the rite of baptism a dedicated day: Saturday. Baptisms commence upon the service that you want to visit in 12 hours. Between the service and the ceremony got a little time in order to light a candle in the temple, to pray and to acquire necessary supplies: shirt, pectoral cross, a candle in the altar.

Limitations



The rite of baptism is not performed in the days of fasting and also in the days of commemoration. The only exceptions are the cases when the child is in critical condition, but then after the baptism is carried out the rite of unction. Often the sacrament is accomplished in the days of the big Orthodox holidays, to get to such a christening is considered to be among the people good luck. A special "arrive just in time" dates.
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