A categorical "no" tell all the forums for pregnant women. Not necessary to read them, sometimes they write things that are not only able to upset sensitive woman, but also enter into a depression. Do not read the history of birth, why do you need it? This is an individual process that each proceeds in a special way. Don't set yourself on the bad, because thoughts can materialize. Never listen to advice, read books and poetry, they are much better inspiring and uplifting. Very often on forums you can read real horror stories about childbirth. As a rule, they are largely exaggerated, moms love to feel sorry for them, although, of course, there are exceptions. Better to read this after your baby is born, then you will be able to compare his and someone else's experience.
Refrain from communicating with those people who are unpleasant to you, do not force yourself, because all your negative emotions passed on to the unborn baby. Create a circle of friends where you will feel like a fish in water.
Don't cry! Yes, sometimes unsettled hormones can provoke tears and a bad mood, but try to hold back. The fact is that when you cry, the baby may experience oxygen starvation, and generally a nervous mother is not very good. During pregnancy, you must be always positive.
Don't try to be the perfect wife and hostess, no one ever can manage to do everything better to be a smiling woman, full of energy, but with moderate things at home than dull and tired, but with a shiny clean from the shelves in the apartment.
In pregnancy you should feel incredible comfort, adjust and create these comfortable conditions themselves. Instead anyone and listen only to your feelings and inner voice, which for sure will never give you bad advice.
