Advice 1: How to make a girl cum first

Young men who have not too much experience with the opposite sex, often upset that you can't bring your girlfriend to orgasm. Most often this happens from the fact that they too get excited and in a hurry, while the woman to get fun, need more time.
How to make a girl cum first

Foreplay - the first step to a powerful orgasm

If a man set out to bring the girl to orgasm, it needs a lot of patience. Long foreplay is a great way to relax your partner, create the desire and passion. To start an erotic massage from the hands, feet, shoulders. Strokes should be light at first and then stronger. Follow the reaction partner. If she began to moan, his bend - it's time to move on to more intimate caresses. Turn the Breasts, neck, thighs. Take your time. Let the girl get pleasure from sensual touching. You need to make sure that she wanted full contact. Only then the likelihood of orgasm will be almost one hundred percent.

If you hesitate to talk with a girl about sex will have to learn in practice. Watch her reaction to certain affection and soon you'll realize that she likes the most.

Sexual intercourse - how to make the girl cum first

During sexual intercourse it is not necessary to enter the penis at once deeply. Many women have more sensitive upper part of the vagina, which is closer to the lips of the vagina. It is worth paying attention to. Enter penis slowly, slowly. Pay attention to your partner. If you see that her ardor began to cool, stroke your fingers the area around the clitoris. The "Bud of love" must not touch. The skin there is very delicate, and the sharp click will cause only discomfort.

Some poses can also be unpleasant and painful for girls. It is better to know about them in advance, in a candid conversation. Then all prior efforts are not in vain. Usually the most comfortable posture is the traditional missionary or when a man lies the back (when the penis does not penetrate deeply). But every woman can be her favorite position in sex, and if you know about it before the start of sexual contact, you can bring her to bliss very quickly.

Remember that not every woman necessarily need an orgasm. Some like to feel strong man close by. So don't torture yourself and her, if the discharge does not occur. Just wait next time.

Sooner or later you will learn how to bring to orgasm girlfriend. But this is only the beginning of joint experiments. If the partners trust each other, they will find new ways of having fun. And high-quality, regular, varied sex is one of the foundations of a happy life together.

Advice 2: How to take the first step towards a man

The modern way of life dictates its own rules of conduct. But still not everyone is able to get rid of the "ancient", the universally recognized standards and to keep pace with the times. For example, since the last century, men were obliged to take the first step, to care, protect and give flowers to the woman. And so it is hard to understand now that a woman can do it too (and sometimes should). And if you like the man, the first to take the initiative is not ashamed.
While he does not even know about your crush
You will need
  • Courage, confidence, determination, charm.
Let's say that you like a work colleague, neighbour or are you just fascinated by some stranger. This is not so important. The important thing is that you liked a man who does not know about it. First you need to try to establish contact with him, that is to talk. You still don't know what this man is, and, perhaps, the first conversation may fail, or, on the contrary, the person will be very sociable and communicative, and you will have the feeling that you already know each other. Try to be something of interest. The most harmless way, especially when you are talking for the first time, is the ability to listen, and men love it very much. Therefore, the first conversation, the most important thing is to listen, ask questions, inquire about his life, Hobbies, friends, etc. to Tell about itself not necessarily, or rather, prohibited. A few harmless phrases about a happy childhood, or everyday life will be enough.
But if you are already familiar with the man and you have formed good friendships, and you still do not dare to tell him of his sympathy, we need to resort to heavy artillery. The ability to speak and communicate is not enough. Many people know that men appreciate sincerity and openness, so you can feel free to Express their tender feelings and sympathy. Tell him about it, gently and unobtrusively. First, it would be very nice, and secondly, he will look at you other eyes. Maybe not immediately, but eventually - definitely. Feel free to talk about what you think and feel, be confident. He probably felt towards you the same thing, but did not dare to say. Take the initiative into their own hands and act.
In any case do not tell the man about his past experience, especially if he has been very successful. Actually, forget about that, and he doesn't need to know.
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Not to push away from your object of adoration, we should not rush to him with the big words, like "I love you" or "have long to live without you." It looks ridiculous and absurd, and man may be frightened.

Advice 3: As a first step to male

Traditionally, the first step to an acquaintance or beginning of a relationship men do, but they are hardly interested in the woman, which is not located to communication and flirting. In addition, males are just scared of a beautiful girl for fear of rejection. Then you have to take the initiative in their hands.
As a first step to male
Before proceeding into action, you need to be assertive. To not worry about how to look at your silhouette from the side, take care of appearance in advance. Visit the gym, hair done, in General, give your body a well-groomed appearance. As for clothes, she should not be calling, but rather a little exciting and flattering your figure.
To attract the attention of any men, use main weapon – look and smile. The look can be quick, but accurate, or long-lasting, which would look spectacular with Flirty tilting strands of hair. Smile should be natural and easy.
If he was paying attention to you, go to the trick, for example, asking him to help. The situation may be different – to help fill the document, choose a book in the store or just to find the way. Self-respecting man will respond to the request. Maybe he still will thank you for it, because at the same time puzzled, hoping to speak with you.
If you meet the same person several times and felt him burning interest, to take the first step, perhaps, will be even easier. At each meeting, greet him with a smile, a nod of the head or the traditional "good day". Depending on where you most often see each other, identify your common interests: a love of music, literature, sporting events or theatrical productions. Example the first sentence might be: "hi, great show, isn't it? And as you previous one?..."
In your environment there is a man with whom you are talking for a long time, but the relationship is "stuck" at the stage of friendship? Tell him about your feelings, but unobtrusive. For example, the next time you tell a joke, tell him "I like You", but as if you said, "you Have a beautiful tie." Anyway, he will remember these words and will probably look at you with different eyes.

Advice 4: How to understand what brought your partner to orgasm

Men, especially not very experienced in sex, sometimes I can not understand whether a partner is fun. To find out, brought to orgasm a girl or not can be based on several criteria. Every woman they own, and what you will learn from this article.
How to understand what brought your partner to orgasm


How to understand what is brought to orgasm - basic signs

The main signs of the female orgasm - an increase in the amount of lubrication, the strain of muscles of a vagina (it starts to compress and decompress), trembling, groans, sometimes ejaculation (inkjet orgasm). These are the basic signs by which one can understand that the woman had an orgasm.

However, it is not always possible to understand what drove the beloved to orgasm. Some girls are very shy and don't show your emotions, don't make noise and groan, holding back a shiver. With such it is difficult to understand, they received pleasure or not. If your girl is just out of this category pay more attention to secondary features of the female orgasm.

How to understand what brought to orgasm, if the girl is shy

If she strongly hides his emotions, is not revealed in sex, it is very difficult to orgasm. On a psychological level she is the block - it seems that what she does is bad. So she can't relax. If you love your girl, help her to understand that in sex there is nothing wrong. Perhaps she worried that she might get pregnant, or that parents would find out. And many girls are concerned that a partner thinks about her body. So try to impress the girl confidence and to show that you are reliable partner and willing to take responsibility for it. Tell her you love her and ask to get married - most girls enough to know that you are ready to create a family, to become much more liberated in sex.

If the girl still hides his emotions during sex, to understand what drove her to orgasm is possible on that basis that after a certain time (each is their own), the partner tries to avoid penetration of the penis and removes your hands from the clitoris. The fact that a few minutes after orgasm women are unpleasant touching of the sexual organs. They just want to lay there, feeling like the body is filled with pleasant warmth. Although in this case it is possible that she never got orgasm, she just is not pleasant to your manipulation. Best after sex to talk about it and find out what prevents your partner to enjoy lovemaking.

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