But how often do we hear complaints pickiest of wives on their husbands, some people think that her husband too much time to friends or not at all helps his wife deal with the household chores. Husband was other before the wedding - so say almost all wives. So what happened with him after the wedding? Or is it all empty words too harmful wives?
The mystery of the noticeable change lies in the attitude of women to their partner. Sometimes women are convinced that is worthy of the best spouse and it is because of this fight too demanding and picky. As for men, they feel discriminating against the couple and may therefore unwittingly become indifferent, lazy and wholly inactive.
If the wife thinks that her husband is unworthy of a high salary or a prestigious job, he instinctively feels it and loses faith in himself. And if the companion with all your soul believes in him, is struggling to maintain, he will be able to achieve great things. Because behind him is she the one that gave him faith in himself and helped not to fall.
It is important not to forget that in the male develop quality, which draws attention to his wife.
Is only woman to notice and highlight his masculinity and independence, he will gain confidence in yourself and your strength. If you notice only the bad and never focus on the unique, peculiar only to him the qualities that any good it will not. And there is unlikely to be husband will be the home in which you always want to come back.
Because of all this, the man was considered a loser in one marriage, will be able to fully show their talent and to reveal the beauty of the soul in another marriage. This happens, for example, when in the first marriage, the wife was unable to appreciate the positive qualities of the spouse.
Entering into a second marriage, the man is changing, becoming active and energetic, always looking for new opportunities to achieve their goals, and all this because his time and support helped him to move forward. In each of these cases, it's a woman the energy that she gives to her husband, her strength and care. You always need to remember this and then the family will always be ruled by harmony and comfort!
Advice 2: How to support husband
Advice 3: The influence of the wife on the fate of his wife
If the wife sees the husband of his support, he trusts, shares, respects, things a guy would rather go to the mountain. After all, the second half supports it. He doesn't want to spend time on the couch, not interested in family life and other concerns, in contrast to those men who are rude and verbally humiliated.
In the case where the wife puts all the male responsibilities, such as housework themselves, male ceases to be self-confident, and he has no desire to do anything. In many families there is a struggle for supremacy, who earn more who delicious dinner to cook. If the woman is the leader, the man automatically loses the inner core, that is courage.
The quality of the behavior of the husband is directly dependent on what model of communication with him chose his wife. If you focus on his flaws, they become more, and if you extol something good, then it will be more. Of course, there are no ideal men and women. All in the nature there is both good and bad. Here only the wife will have to decide which side to pay more attention. For example, someone annoying excessive cleanliness, but why would this quality be happy.
The behavior of men in marriages (if there were several) different from each other, because with different women, he behaves differently. In one marriage the husband is drinking, not working, household chores not interested in, behave lazily, and when getting a divorce, and meets a woman another temperament is changing. Starts, goes in for sports, lead a healthy lifestyle and live happily. It may be the reverse situation, when a rich and confident man after divorce loses its social status and position in society. In both cases the wives. Some wives inspire the spouses, then the energy of faith can provide a safe family life. While others can aggravate the situation that will make it worse and myself and my second half.