A special pleasure
The vast majority of men love blow job and find it simple and always a welcome kind of fun. This situation contributes to a lot of: relative safety, almost nezavualirovannoe propaganda in the media, the prevalence of oral sex in erotic films and, most importantly, ease its way to enjoying. A man does not need to strain to make any movements. This can be practiced when a woman's menstruation, treatment or pregnancy. By and large, he doesn't even have to think about the fact that experiencing at this moment partner. All that is needed is to take a comfortable position, relax and enjoy.
The woman do not be fooled: even if you met on the way the person who does not accept this kind of sex, to be sure, he is the exception to the rule. After all, there are only a few minor reasons why a man may not like a Blowjob.
Exceptions to the rule
There are men who don't like blowjobs, or they treat him with indifference. These are a small minority. Most likely, these are any complexes, problems, or negative experience. While it is possible – just personal preference. Keep in mind: if your partner prior to this had a relationship with a woman who was against blow job, or doing it badly or reluctantly, it could also be the reason due to which the man stopped to want this kind of affection. However, you always have the chance to change the situation and deliver the beloved real pleasure.
Stereotypes and misconceptions
Many women somehow think that a Blowjob is a manifestation of the highest degree of confidence. Men have a different opinion, often close to the opposite. For example, open a popular men's forums and you will find, to be surprised. Oral sex men often equates to a kiss and not even considered cheating. Therefore, do not assume that your oral sex will be something for experienced intimate partner. Rather, it will be regarded as a step to normal sex, or enjoyable part of foreplay for him.
A big mistake would be to demonstrate its negative attitude to the Blowjob in that case, if your man has serious sexual experience, and oral sex he probably likes it. Your statement that it is beneath your dignity, and the taste and smell of sperm you nasty, hardly will well affect your intimate life. If you really feel about oral sex with such loathing, looking for a partner with similar views. Otherwise it is unrealized with you desire men sooner or later will make itself felt.
No less a common misconception is because a woman intuitively knows how to do Blowjob. Every man may have their own preference – from the intensity and depth to the specific movements of the mouth and manipulate with your hands. Notorious porn, by the way, is unlikely to help to learn the art of sex, but the oral sex techniques you can learn from it. Drop the shyness and just talk with your man: surely he will be glad to share with you what he'd like to get from you in this pleasant.
