Why her husband walks away from a very beautiful wife

Choosing a wife, men as women, strive to find an ideal that would conform to their own ideas. At the stage of love there are no flaws can't stop the desire to be together. And any advice, even from the closest people, if not met with hostility, it is simply ignored. The human mind as if disabled. As a result, after a while the man sees before him is already not an angel, not the ideal that he not so long ago was ready to be on hand. Fully starts to work the family boats, crashed on way of life. After meeting his future wife, a man sees a girl in full regalia, in the best clothes, pleased by the opportunity to do something nice for her, etc. But after the wedding everything changes dramatically, and how to do so, to avoid this, every woman knows, if a little think about it.

The other main reason for the distancing spouse is a misalignment of values of the spouses. Wife, completing thousands of household chores, is waiting for the fact that her husband will fulfill their. However, it often happens that men think they know better when to perform a particular task on the farm. And the desire of his wife to get, for example, in order to be perceived as infringement of personal rights. So thrice repeated request is perceived as not caring for the family, as "grazing" of the brain. Do not need to be repeated three times the same request - to become a "bore" and "saw" much easier than to get rid of it. Just let go, maybe even wait a week or two, but in the end you leave the self-esteem of her husband intact. That is, will remain in the eyes of her husband a woman who values the husband higher than had fallen from the wall screw. In doing so constantly, you will be able to prioritize, then the husband begins to realize that the most important value for him is you. And desire to find someone better at it will not arise.

Third but first in importance is not the "bed", and the absence of psychological contact. Remember that at the stage of courtship caused you both have the greatest affinity. If you do could not remember, this happens very often, then you have a lot of work. Consider the Hobbies of the husband and try to choose something closest to you. And now remains only to love, and truly. For example, your husband does not miss a single football match, and you still perceive it as an unnecessary waste of time. The football hatred you are experiencing and even know which team it hurts your husband. The case for small, understand the rules and buy myself and my husband tickets for the most important season match for the team, for which sick husband. And a few weeks honeymoon after the match you provided.