Even when you and your husband all good, keep the situation under control. If you do not want one to know that he has a mistress, first and foremost watch out for their appearance. Men like groomed women. Even if you have lived with her husband for decades, is not a reason to turn into well-groomed housewife. Keep yourself in shape, not gain weight. As often as you can pamper yourself with new clothes. Sometimes change hairstyle or hair color.
Always freshen your feelings. Start a Dating, romantic dinners for two, picnics. Surround your family with positive emotions. Casually remind your husband about how you met, what felt like was afraid to tell each other something, etc. Remember together all the happy moments and promise him that such moments in your life will be a lot more.
Delicious cook for your man. Pamper it with various Goodies. Who, if not you know what he prefers eating. Invent the original file for your meals. The man should see that you are trying to do something nice every day. Woman, which makes for the beloved is all, you can't cheat, and especially to betray.
Be affectionate and gentle. Surround husband not only care, but also warmth. At every opportunity tenderly to touch him, caress him. May he always feel your love. Thus you will always close to each other. Remember that normal men start cheating on their wives only when away from them.
Be interesting. Even the most beautiful and gentle wife can quickly become bored if she had nothing to talk about. You need to be able to interest a loved one. Always be aware of his Hobbies, to be able to hold a conversation. Watch good movies together and then discuss them over a Cup of tea. Read the book to be comprehensively developed person.
Do not make scandals out of nothing. "Not saw," husband, if he's nothing too terrible did not. In situations where you can say, it's better to refrain from loud statements. The calmer you will be to treat everything, the more harmonious will be your family. This does not mean that you have to pull my husband from whatever he is doing is wrong. Sometimes it is necessary to show "teeth", but everything should be in moderation.
Never show him that you doubt his loyalty. In a relationship there must be trust. If you start to doubt his honesty, pretend that I trust completely. And better tell him about it. The man who often hears from his wife that she trusts him, she will not dare to deceive and change.
Make your family happy. Don't go with a scowl, smile, enjoy life, and you will attract not only husband but also other people.