Womanizer not born - they are
There are a number of reasons why a man may turn into a thoughtless windy playboy-womanizer:
- The overabundance of female attention. This outcome, like it or not solely to blame women. To marry a cute, intelligent, able to make man - natural female need. But, unfortunately, statistics show that there is a tremendous shortage of males on the soul of the female population. More or less a decent guy enjoys unprecedented popularity among girls. Well, how not to start working on several fronts at the same time?
- Problems with self-esteem. All the complexes from childhood. Perhaps even in kindergarten, the boy Peter confessed his love to the girl Masha, and she rejected his advances. And since then, has become a full-fledged man, he takes revenge on all the females for once received offense. Women are for him just a trophy that he can flaunt in your friends circle.
A man you don't explain what it is meaning to your life. His vision of the world is deeply distorted, and, most likely, for solving its problems will require the assistance of a psychologist.
- Fear of close emotional relationships. This fear may arise for various reasons: some survived the betrayal of the woman who then lost her forever because of certain circumstances, and someone just thinks that the attachment is for the weak.
Men just shut off feelings, not allowing women in the hidden corners of his soul. And if anyone is lucky enough to know a little the secrets of men's hearts, he immediately without explanation credited to the former category.
Womanizer: instructions for use
How to deal with swashbuckling heartthrob and protect his fragile heart from a deep scar?
First, in order not to be disappointed in man, it is not necessary to be fascinated. Do not neglect women's intuition: if you notice that your man is leering at other women, don't look at it through his fingers. So there are big problems with his unsatisfied libido.
The best way is to leave a man-a womanizer, because it is not correct, if only he himself will understand that lives properly.
Secondly, if you decided to build relationships with an eye for the ladies, keep yourself in hand. Heaped praise on him for no reason, because womanizer is haunted. a woman only as long as is interested. Keep it in shape: step back to a safe distance, not bothering calls and messages. It does not humiliate and do not grieve him. Be Switzerland and remain neutral towards her chosen.
Try in the first place to be his friend, and then passionate lover. It is possible, though unlikely, it will hook the depths of your soul and you will not be another entry in the notebook of his amorous conquests.