If you notice that people avoid contact with you, then something does not suit them. Think about it: if you are not too annoying? Do not distract a person empty talk from the important things? After all, sociability and persistence are different things. Your friendly relationship does not mean that you can nosy. Many people are short of communication, or they are just busy and because of common courtesy I can't ask you not to pester you with questions. Therefore, avoid meeting with you, and then just stop to chat.
If you asked a question and the person answers evasively, don't insist on an answer. Maybe he's just not ready to announce it now. Or doesn't want to tell you about something. And that is his right. Not to be Intrusive, stand back, and wait for the friend he will offer to continue the conversation on the topic that interests you.
You should not be bothersome in dealing with young people. Men are hunters at heart. They are interesting to achieve women, and not to hide from her pursuit. Try the abyss out of the circle of view of the object of adoration. If he was worried, I started calling and interested in your destiny, then everything is in order partner passionate about you and try to force yourself not absolutely necessary. But if after the termination of the communication calls is not received, continue to insist on meetings just not worth it. Most likely, the guy sighed quietly and just glad to have got rid of such annoying girls. And, of course, relations with him does not, it is not your option.
Even the closest people - parents, sisters, brothers - are closed for communication. Don't insist on talking if the person is not ready for that. If you see that he has a lot on his mind, ask if you can do something to help. If the answer is no - do not impose. Sometimes it's better to endure problems in isolation. But, at the same time, no offense. If native people did ask for assistance, be sure to respond.
Advice 2: How to stop being obsessive
The obsession cause a lot of trouble to both parties. The person who imposed, feeling the uselessness, embarrassment, there is a tension in the relationship, sometimes it can get to fight. Because the other party is required as free space so it will be beneficial to not be Intrusive.
Most importantly, you understand your compulsion and want to get rid of it. Realizing his problem, you have a chance to get rid of this bad habit and make life easier for themselves and others.
Start to control yourself. Carefully observe yourself and your desires, and when you once again want to impose another person, stop yourself. Understand that sometimes people want to spend time apart from you, do not consider it an insult or an attempt to move away. Sometimes it's good to spend time apart to appreciate time together.
Find something to do. Very often people impose on others just because they don't know what to do. Engage in a hobby, devote time to their Hobbies and self-development. You can read a book or watch a new movie. When you feel yourself start to intrude, back off and take care love.
Don't call too often. Some people think the obsession is manifested only in a joint pastime, but even the constant calls and TEXT messages can be annoying and perceived as an imposition. If you need to control yourself and not to call, take the rate to expensive rate. Then you will be significantly less time to spend in conversation. The habit constantly to call the guy will disappear, bring back the old rate, but know the measure in calls.
Spend time with your friends. If you lack communication, meet friends, have fun and have fun with them, go shopping and discuss the latest news. Spend your days with different people, not to impose one.
Become more self-confident. Very often the obsession occurs because of self-doubt and fear to lose him. But the constant calls and requirement meetings will not benefit the relationship, you should raise the self-esteem, become independent and to give the initiative in the hands of men. The guy himself must ask about the meeting and phoning, and you deprive him of this, taking over its role. Learn to enjoy life alone, and can not be imposed on people.