What if the girl slept with a friend

Cheating girlfriend is always a heavy blow to the male ego. Especially difficult to go through a betrayal perpetrated not only lover, but best friend.

The reasons for female adultery

Girls cheat on their Boyfriends for various reasons. Such act can lead the lack of proper attention from the young man, his indifference, distance, resentment, female jealousy, silliness, alcohol, not mutual feelings or a new love. If you found out that your lover has betrayed you, you need to remember everything that happened, and to try to understand what caused the betrayal.

The girl slept with a friend. How to be?

Sometimes girls are hesitant to enter into an intimate relationship with a friend of her boyfriend. If you fall into such a situation, you should remember that your emotions are best kept under control. In a fit of anger you can make rash actions that would hurt you. Keep calm. Before something to do, wait a while, let your anger subside a bit.

Try to find out the cause of female treachery. To do this, simply talk to your sweetheart about what led her to such a low and vile act, maybe she will tell you about the reasons for his infidelity. During a conversation you shouldn't be yelling at her, called insulting words and scandal. Only quiet conversation in a friendly tone will help you to learn the truth. The girl should not be afraid of you during your communication. Fear will only lead to another lie.

Understand their own feelings. Perhaps humiliated just your male pride, and you suffer not from love for the other half. Sometimes after female infidelity guys are starting to realize that in fact their relationship has long been stalled, so it's best to interrupt them as quickly as possible.

Try to think objectively. Only you can decide whether to forgive the traitor and give her a second chance. Remember that cheating in any moment may be repeated.

As for the friend who slept with your beloved, your best bet is to stop communicating with him as he goes unpunished, he will feel the advantage over you and may again decide on such a thing. You do not need to retain people who had once hit you in the back. Such friends will not bring anything good into your life, but are only to spoil it with their presence. Do not start a showdown with a traitor. Rise above it all. Believe me, your indifference will only anger him and cause resentment.