In order not to upset the recruit the little annoyances, you need to make seeing the army happy and joyful. This event should gather all of his best friends, good friends, classmates and relatives. Friends, his girlfriend and the mother of the young man need to restrain himself without showing your sadness and tears. After all, at this point, future soldier is much harder. He will need a long time to leave home and get into the unusual atmosphere. Future worries the guy and keeps him in suspense. It is therefore important to help him calm down and relax for at least this evening.
To organize farewell to the army is not so simple. This event will require a considerable amount of money on the Banquet, as well as transportation costs. Here much depends on its location and the number of invited guests. However, you must remember that the wires cannot be turned into a regular feast. In addition to the celebration in the trendy restaurant/café, you can organize a Banquet at the country or even at home. If the wires will be held in the summer, the option of a cottage would be preferable, especially if there is a river or a forest and there is a possibility to cook outdoors barbecue.
Meals on seeing the army may be different, depending on your finances and time of year. Definitely need to cook the dish which is more like a rookie because he's not going to be able to eat them. And, you can cook a pot of barley, so the audience tried a spoon of the army porridge. Do not "overload" the young people alcoholic beverages, it is better to let more guests dancing and having fun in contests. The appetizer usually cook the chicken with vegetables, lots of salads, fish dishes and kebab. For dessert, just get fruits and sweets. Importantly, the meals were delicious.
The recruit should be put in the place of honor, so he saw all those present, and next to place parents and most important guests. The oldest of those present should say the first speech, addressing rookie in a nice way. Very well, if he himself had fought before or has awards for his service. Then the rest of the guests can also give the guy your advice. Not interfere on the celebration and jokes, the contests that will allow you to lighten the atmosphere with fun and laughter. During the event let the music plays. Modern compositions should dilute the old songs that are traditionally heard on the wires in the army: "don't cry, girl", "two winters", "How dear mother accompanied me" and of course "Katyusha".
In different areas have their own traditions and rituals that are associated with this event. For example, some ask future soldier hang a ribbon on the wall. It will symbolize that little bit of guy will stay here. Only he, upon his arrival to his home, is able to remove the tape from the wall. Sometimes the parents of the recruit trying to throw coins in the moving bus. To put on the form before his departure for the army is usually considered a bad omen. Even if it asks to do a best friend to be photographed, should he refuse.
While seeing the army guy give a piece of loaves, and the remainder wrapped and clean until he returned home. Soldiers then he takes it out and finish. Also today revived the tradition, when on the eve of sending of recruits in army, his family visits the local temple. Blessed future soldier on the road, all going to the recruiting station. According to tradition, seeing the army completed the return of all the mourners guy in his parents ' house.
Advice 2: How to make a friend farewell to the army
Military service is honorable and prestigious thing, necessary for every young man seeking to become a real man. But for a young person it's hard to part with an established family life, with friends and family with my girlfriend. So that the future soldiers were looking forward to their retirement and fondly remembered the last days of civilian life, pursue a man in the army should be memorable.
Usually escort the army noisy company of friends and relatives. Lay the table, singing songs with a guitar, remember events from my childhood. Seeing invite all who are dear conscript friends, family, classmates and, of course, his favorite. Everyone who will be waiting for him from the army, to write him letters.
Often the future soldier was presented with an original and memorable gift that he can bring to the service and which will remind the wires in the Armed Forces. Often give money as much as they can. Allowance of the soldier at the call of the small, and a certain amount of money he will need in the first months of service in the army. Sometimes in jest young admits hat in a circle in which everyone is invited to collect money to "soldier boots".
One of the traditions in the army – shaving bald. At the recruiting office recruits shave machine "at zero" and to save future soldiers from this procedure, it is shaved at home. Friends the procedure is fun and remembered by all for a long Many family and girlfriend recruit often kept locks of the soldier until his return from the army. Already served in the army comrades telling recruits about the peculiarities of military service, I remember the interesting moments of army life.
Depending on traditions, from the number of guests and the financial capacity of the wires noted in a cafe, in a sauna, at a picnic or at home. In summer, the feast often takes place at the cottage with a barbecue and alcohol. Friends of the recruit should take care of the entertainment of the young person, family – to not overload the youth with alcohol. Also often arrange the "double" wires – in one day the friends and classmates of the recruit, in the next day soldiers escorted the family and friends.
To seeing was truly memorable, the family of the pre-write a sample script of events. Pre-compose the toast. Prepare in advance gifts. Often, recruits are presented with photo album of friends and relatives, in which he write wishes, advice or any jokes. The girls sing the song the recruit. This format allows the wires to arrange a happy holiday without alcohol.
Some in the memory of the past in the army at home hanging the ribbon, symbolizing that a part of the future conscript will always be home. Throw some coins under the wheels of an army bus, which leaves the soldier. Believers call before you visit the Church asking the blessings of the priest on the path service.
Try on a military uniform before leaving for the army considered a bad omen. A well-regarded, if a soldier goes home back forward to come back alive and healthy.