An abusive person usually does not notice for a sin. Explain to the man that it deprives the family to communicate with him and Vice versa. A significant portion of the time the man pays for the beer, and if he drank the communication can not be complete. Tell us how it is important for you to be with him, to share experiences and problems. Emphasize how you need your man. Strongly not push, but try to objectively convey that you care about him and your relationship.
If a man agrees with your arguments and ready to fix, offer him an alternative. For example, agree that the consumption of beer alone you will do something nice together. Owlcotes Cycling, join together in a circle of tango, buy tickets to the swimming pool.
Perhaps the habit of drinking beer, your men just need something to occupy your hands and mouth while watching TV, as I bite my nails or smoke. Try to offer him something LP: seeds, nuts, dried fruit. Sometimes you can ask the man a simple mechanical thing while watching TV: for example, to dig the stones out of the cherries for winter preparations. This will allow him to focus, and, at the same time, to relax, to escape, if that's what he finds in beer.
Try to play the game. For example, ask the man for three months to put aside that he could spend on beer and nuts. And the money saved you will go on a wine tour in Provence for the weekend. For each miss postpone the trip for a week.
Maybe come to a meeting after work with a man creatively? Many of them not easy to switch after a tense working environment at the wife and the quiet creaking of the floorboards home. Cook your man a beautiful dinner. A better – wait for the man to work and cook them to the music together. It can be a regular chicken with fries, but served in glass bowls, decorated with rosemary, Apple rings and little candles. Pitch out all that is in the fridge, lots of snacks in tiny saucers, turn on the jazz-modern, buy a bottle of the lightest wine and glue it humorous pictures about your life together. Behave like movie heroes of American film. After a series of such dinners to retreat man is not so simple.
If you have a lack of that annoying man, ask the competition: who is faster will get rid of your flaw. Put your money in public, for example, in the presence of friends. If a man can go a couple months without beer, and you will be frustrated with no carb diet before – well, a week-long fishing trip with friends, he assured.
Tell your man how you are sick of it rasklapanje species and fish odor, as you constantly have a headache, and thought about his behaviour have neither sleep nor concentrate at work. Ask him to drink a beer for you less often, to start the day and gradually leading up to a couple of bottles at the weekend. Bloom and rejoice in proportion to the decrease in the number of drink man beer. Surprise him with new outfits, make-up and cheerful. If you can leave one beer on Saturday and drink on Saturdays together.
Not looking for your man calm in beer and the ability to vent to friends? Are you talking along, there are concerts and movies? Not whether you live as neighbors?
Tell the man that colleagues are wondering why, well, I married a man twice older than themselves. Read him the note known endocrinologist from the magazine "cosmopolitan" about the possibility of the growth of male breast until the second size when the consumption of beer. Take a tape measure, measure your man and make a table in Excel. Keep monitoring regularly and carefully.
Take a man coupon on reception to the urologist, explaining that even a little bit- and it will be too late. Promise to get off work and go with him.
If your man goes to beer bars, declare that she was infected by his example and counsel, which of five new pairs of pins suitable for latex shorts.
If all else fails, admit both that the man is sick with alcoholism. Seek help in specialized centers, or accept and then love him such what it is.
To offer an alternative
If a man agrees with your arguments and ready to fix, offer him an alternative. For example, agree that the consumption of beer alone you will do something nice together. Owlcotes Cycling, join together in a circle of tango, buy tickets to the swimming pool.
Perhaps the habit of drinking beer, your men just need something to occupy your hands and mouth while watching TV, as I bite my nails or smoke. Try to offer him something LP: seeds, nuts, dried fruit. Sometimes you can ask the man a simple mechanical thing while watching TV: for example, to dig the stones out of the cherries for winter preparations. This will allow him to focus, and, at the same time, to relax, to escape, if that's what he finds in beer.
Motivate
Try to play the game. For example, ask the man for three months to put aside that he could spend on beer and nuts. And the money saved you will go on a wine tour in Provence for the weekend. For each miss postpone the trip for a week.
Maybe come to a meeting after work with a man creatively? Many of them not easy to switch after a tense working environment at the wife and the quiet creaking of the floorboards home. Cook your man a beautiful dinner. A better – wait for the man to work and cook them to the music together. It can be a regular chicken with fries, but served in glass bowls, decorated with rosemary, Apple rings and little candles. Pitch out all that is in the fridge, lots of snacks in tiny saucers, turn on the jazz-modern, buy a bottle of the lightest wine and glue it humorous pictures about your life together. Behave like movie heroes of American film. After a series of such dinners to retreat man is not so simple.
To make a bet
If you have a lack of that annoying man, ask the competition: who is faster will get rid of your flaw. Put your money in public, for example, in the presence of friends. If a man can go a couple months without beer, and you will be frustrated with no carb diet before – well, a week-long fishing trip with friends, he assured.
Pressure on the pity
Tell your man how you are sick of it rasklapanje species and fish odor, as you constantly have a headache, and thought about his behaviour have neither sleep nor concentrate at work. Ask him to drink a beer for you less often, to start the day and gradually leading up to a couple of bottles at the weekend. Bloom and rejoice in proportion to the decrease in the number of drink man beer. Surprise him with new outfits, make-up and cheerful. If you can leave one beer on Saturday and drink on Saturdays together.
Maybe it's lonely?
Not looking for your man calm in beer and the ability to vent to friends? Are you talking along, there are concerts and movies? Not whether you live as neighbors?
Frighten him. Private.
Tell the man that colleagues are wondering why, well, I married a man twice older than themselves. Read him the note known endocrinologist from the magazine "cosmopolitan" about the possibility of the growth of male breast until the second size when the consumption of beer. Take a tape measure, measure your man and make a table in Excel. Keep monitoring regularly and carefully.
Take a man coupon on reception to the urologist, explaining that even a little bit- and it will be too late. Promise to get off work and go with him.
If your man goes to beer bars, declare that she was infected by his example and counsel, which of five new pairs of pins suitable for latex shorts.
If all else fails, admit both that the man is sick with alcoholism. Seek help in specialized centers, or accept and then love him such what it is.
