What is separation?
Couples break up for different reasons. Someone broke up because of the intractable crisis in the lives of others love just died, others broke up because of infidelity of one of them. In any case, truly "former" partners in life. Resentment, anger, anger, sadness change to man, but to get rid of feelings of ownership allow not always. Besides, long-term relationship make people "grow" into each other, between them there is a special understanding, a kind of "everyday telepathy," so do expunged once the person you love life is never easy. That is why many people have thoughts about resuming relations with the former.
While chatting with former lover did not remember about the breakup. Not stir up the past, does not clarify the relationship. All this may lead to a quarrel that put an end to the return of the former relations.
If the couple separated by mutual consent without quarrels and scandals relations on this basis will not build. Usually these people are friends, can sometimes communicate in moments of loneliness are in the same bed. But fundamentally it changes nothing. Because such couples break up because of the lack of common goals and interests, they are no longer related. And if the gap was truly consensual, there is nothing to link them and can't.
Is it worth it to rebuild?
If you want to bring a partner who dumped you or who dumped you, think about whether it's you actually. After some time after the break in the memory are only the highlights, the negative is just erased, so you can remember solely the advantages of your former lover, forgetting about the shortcomings that caused the breakup.
Resume communication with a former spouse, an excellent platform to give the social network. If you feel that you establish contact, ask him or her to meet, it is best to invite a former lover to some small company, so the situation will not be too intimate.
Don't be afraid to flirt with your ex, it will cause in it and your memories of how they were born your feelings, which will only benefit, if you really want him or her back.
The easiest way to establish contacts with the former spouse, if you have children. They are the main "glue". The visits of the father to the child is a great way to test the waters. In ordinary conversations, common themes and memories — that's what brings people together. Having a child just makes such conversations possible, because you do not have to specifically look for that may look awkward.
In fact, the best way (which is suitable for brave people) is to call his former partner, invite him or her to meet and openly Express their thoughts. This can be done, if you had even the slightest hint of old feelings.
Advice 2 : When there is love after a breakup
Love can make a person the happiest, she's able to stomp it. People do not know how to control this feeling, so some suffer from unrequited, and some because of lost love.
When the love after a breakup
You wanted to be near him, wanted to fall asleep and Wake up together the rest of your life. You can imagine how many shared happy moments waiting for you to come. But suddenly your relationship crumbled like sand, and you are left with nothing.
It's time to understand that it happens in real life, such a situation is faced by many people. The fact that the man and woman often do not converge.
Love after the breakup of different people is different. Everything will depend on the degree of attachment to this guy. Perhaps you felt for him not love, but love, the two feelings are very easily confused. Love is quite fast, enough not to see the former for 1-2 months.
Also you could experience to his usual sympathy, which, combined with habit and affection might seem to you love. In this case, you will be quite a bit to wean from human and understand that there are lots of cute guys. Sympathy may evaporate even faster than love.
If you really feel the true feeling of true love, things are bad. As a rule, true love man meets once in a lifetime. Such strong emotions can stay in my heart forever.
Some girls are able to experience strong feelings several times in my life, so do not put on a cross, chances are you'll meet your soul mate. It is now very hard to believe, but most often exactly what happens.
How to stop loving a guy
Help yourself to forget him. Don't look at his pictures, read his messages, not to remember the bright moments. Nostalgia will bring you into full depression, and it won't end well.
Think about that in the moment when you sadly remember his eyes, he's having fun with friends. He may even found a new passion. You don't want to suffer in that time, he was already well without you?
Start a new life. Now you have all the chances to make it even better. Think about what you are not alone, but free. And if you have freedom, use it. Call your friends, go with them to some place nice. Don't close yourself to yourself, now you need people who are able to elevate your mood.
A very effective way to forget an ex-boyfriend to find a new one. Think about it, but if you're not ready for a new relationship, give yourself some time.