What is separation?
Couples break up for different reasons. Someone broke up because of the intractable crisis in the lives of others love just died, others broke up because of infidelity of one of them. In any case, truly "former" partners in life. Resentment, anger, anger, sadness change to man, but to get rid of feelings of ownership allow not always. Besides, long-term relationship make people "grow" into each other, between them there is a special understanding, a kind of "everyday telepathy," so do expunged once the person you love life is never easy. That is why many people have thoughts about resuming relations with the former.
While chatting with former lover did not remember about the breakup. Not stir up the past, does not clarify the relationship. All this may lead to a quarrel that put an end to the return of the former relations.
If the couple separated by mutual consent without quarrels and scandals relations on this basis will not build. Usually these people are friends, can sometimes communicate in moments of loneliness are in the same bed. But fundamentally it changes nothing. Because such couples break up because of the lack of common goals and interests, they are no longer related. And if the gap was truly consensual, there is nothing to link them and can't.
Is it worth it to rebuild?
If you want to bring a partner who dumped you or who dumped you, think about whether it's you actually. After some time after the break in the memory are only the highlights, the negative is just erased, so you can remember solely the advantages of your former lover, forgetting about the shortcomings that caused the breakup.
Resume communication with a former spouse, an excellent platform to give the social network. If you feel that you establish contact, ask him or her to meet, it is best to invite a former lover to some small company, so the situation will not be too intimate.
Don't be afraid to flirt with your ex, it will cause in it and your memories of how they were born your feelings, which will only benefit, if you really want him or her back.
The easiest way to establish contacts with the former spouse, if you have children. They are the main "glue". The visits of the father to the child is a great way to test the waters. In ordinary conversations, common themes and memories — that's what brings people together. Having a child just makes such conversations possible, because you do not have to specifically look for that may look awkward.
In fact, the best way (which is suitable for brave people) is to call his former partner, invite him or her to meet and openly Express their thoughts. This can be done, if you had even the slightest hint of old feelings.
Advice 2: How to restore the soil
Soil structure is determined not only by its mineral-based (clay, sand, loam, sandy loam, humus), but the number of living soil organisms that live in it. Earthworms and insects are digging tunnels, forming channels through which deep into the soil do water and air. Their waste products enrich the land and increase productivity. Intensive use of soils by man leads to its depletion.
To restore soil fertility often use compost – rotted organic waste. To the organics was rotting during faster, it is recommended to make a compost pile in layers.
The first layer for better drainage, lay straw, hay or firewood. The next layer may be annual weeds without Mature seeds, pieces of paper or natural fabrics, remnants of fruit and vegetables, small branches of trees and shrubs left after pruning, fallen leaves. Organic waste, cover with a layer of soil and put organic matter again.
In dry weather water the compost with water to speed up decomposition. In the water you can add bioactivators for the enrichment of the composition of beneficial microorganisms, for example, "Baikal". An activator is bird droppings.
In the process of decomposition of excreted nitrogen, necessary for plant life. The gas does not escape, cover your compost pile with polyethylene. Plastic film, also, retains heat and therefore helps accelerate the decomposition of organic matter. To use compost will be ready in approximately 8 months.
To improve the structure of soil is widely applied manure – cow, horse, goat, sheep. Fresh manure use extreme caution not to burn the roots and stems of plants. Better to give him pereplet within six months. In the same way as compost, manure covers to hold the nitrogen.
Many gardeners use to improve the fertility of your plot of leaf humus from the forest. But we must remember that this is depleted the soil in the woods, and exposed tree roots that cause direct harm to the nature. As popular fertilizer is peat. However, environmental scientists are encouraged to opt out of this method, since the depletion and the depletion of peat bogs harmful to the nature as well as the removal of a fertile layer of earth in the woods.
For the enrichment and recovery of soil structure used green manure plants rich in nitrogen, minerals, starch, proteins and sugars. As a green manure often use peas, lentils, clover, alfalfa. The plant stems are not removed for the winter, and leave in the ground. In the spring of decomposed mass with a rake buried in the ground as an organic fertilizer.
One of the characteristics of the soil is its acidity. Zakislenna soil reduces its fertility, as detrimental to the living soil organisms. Indicators of the acidity of the land are plants such as horsetail, plantain, sorrel, Buttercup. To deacidify the soil, it added crushed egg shells, slaked lime, ash.