How to bring back old feelings

If you live in a marriage for quite some time, and the feelings begin to fade – don't worry: this situation is the norm. Sooner or later the initial passion begins to wane, and the couple is faced with the need to find new motivation for a relationship to nurture your love and to transfer the relationship to a new, higher stage of development.

Instruction

If you are faced with the extinction of the senses, and can't handle it on your own, consult a family psychologist who can competently and objectively assess your level of relationship and to help correct some common errors. Never close your eyes on family issues in the hope that they will disappear by themselves – unless you solve them, they only get worse and will affect your relationship in a negative way. So do not hesitate to ask the experts about skilled assistance if you feel that you can deal with a problem you can not.

If the reason for the decline of the senses was a commonplace life, which led to stagnation in the relationship, try to spice up relationships, giving them the element of surprise. Make sure that the partner has experienced a powerful surge of feelings and new experiences – it would violate a measured course of things and have a positive impact on your mutual feelings areH.

Organize joint camping trip, an extreme journey in another country, jump with a parachute, take part in the original game – for example, in search of treasure in the dungeons of the city. All this will refresh your senses and bring a sense of novelty.

Watch their behavior – the relationship should be protected, and means to cherish and respect your partner. Avoid unfounded jealousy, worklist, negative emotions, aggressive attacks at the man. Your society should be to partner the best way to relax from everyday worries, and it should not cause the desire to run away from you far away.

If you feel irritation from the usual habits and style of life your partner, try to accept it for what it is, just as he accepts you. Do not try to make your partner the ideal spouse that you have always dreamed of – get pleasure from the fact that before you another person that has a lot of unknown shit and puzzles and you have to open them.

Accept his negative traits and try to smooth them its advantages, which you will find a lot. If the irritation is so great that in the family there is no hope for the future restoration of harmonious relations, soberly consider whether to continue to live with this man.

If there is hope to save the family give the wife all his affection and love, and he will tell you the same, to bring back the old feelings.

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