You will need
- In any situation you need to have fresh makeup, manicured hands, tidy hair (of course hair needs to be clean!) and stylish outfit. First and foremost you have to like yourself.
Instruction
1
Be brave.
If you see a guy you hadn't seen before (say, in a cafe, the Museum or even at the bus stop), you need to first decide is it worth it to invite him on a date. Come to him and make with him a short conversation about anything - about his chosen dish (a coffee shop, about the artist whose paintings hang in front of you (in the Museum), the weather (at the bus stop). After 10-15 minutes of conversation you'll know whether you want to go out with this guy for a date. If the inner voice tells you that this is a decent option, be Frank and ask directly if he wants to go with you to a cafe for another show, or just a walk in the Park. Whatever you answered, stay cheerful and relaxed. Girls with despair in the eyes, not attract men. If the guy is nice your company, he will agree. And no court no, and anyway, look over there, another nice guy, maybe we should approach him?
If you see a guy you hadn't seen before (say, in a cafe, the Museum or even at the bus stop), you need to first decide is it worth it to invite him on a date. Come to him and make with him a short conversation about anything - about his chosen dish (a coffee shop, about the artist whose paintings hang in front of you (in the Museum), the weather (at the bus stop). After 10-15 minutes of conversation you'll know whether you want to go out with this guy for a date. If the inner voice tells you that this is a decent option, be Frank and ask directly if he wants to go with you to a cafe for another show, or just a walk in the Park. Whatever you answered, stay cheerful and relaxed. Girls with despair in the eyes, not attract men. If the guy is nice your company, he will agree. And no court no, and anyway, look over there, another nice guy, maybe we should approach him?
2
Be refined.
If you have a crush on a guy who attends with you, for example, yoga courses, you have the advantage of daily demonstrations of their merits. Always put classes in a beautiful bright clothes, and watch the impeccable hairstyles and makeup. During the break, make him feel at home talking about your lessons (or work, if you colleagues). Smile at him, try to make him laugh, sharing, laughter - a great start flirting. During a conversation, casually touch his arm. If he caught the hint, then the next time I see you, most likely, will exchange phone numbers. Well, if you can't wait, invite him to drink a Cup of juice bar in your fitness club or in a café nearby. So you can, not adjusting event, to determine whether or not it "your" object.
If you have a crush on a guy who attends with you, for example, yoga courses, you have the advantage of daily demonstrations of their merits. Always put classes in a beautiful bright clothes, and watch the impeccable hairstyles and makeup. During the break, make him feel at home talking about your lessons (or work, if you colleagues). Smile at him, try to make him laugh, sharing, laughter - a great start flirting. During a conversation, casually touch his arm. If he caught the hint, then the next time I see you, most likely, will exchange phone numbers. Well, if you can't wait, invite him to drink a Cup of juice bar in your fitness club or in a café nearby. So you can, not adjusting event, to determine whether or not it "your" object.
3
Be honest.
If he already likes you and you wanted more than just to be friends, just tell him. Ask him to sit down and just tell me what you feel about him. Guy this recognition may be slightly dumbfound, especially if until now he had no reason to notice your sympathies. If he feels the same way about you, you will inevitably agree on the date. If not (or if he looks a little shocked by this news), tell him what you shared with him my feelings, because I trust him, and that one does not expect the same in return. Explain that your friendship is very important to you and you want to keep it. Be sincere saying it.
If he already likes you and you wanted more than just to be friends, just tell him. Ask him to sit down and just tell me what you feel about him. Guy this recognition may be slightly dumbfound, especially if until now he had no reason to notice your sympathies. If he feels the same way about you, you will inevitably agree on the date. If not (or if he looks a little shocked by this news), tell him what you shared with him my feelings, because I trust him, and that one does not expect the same in return. Explain that your friendship is very important to you and you want to keep it. Be sincere saying it.
4
Be mysterious.
This method is good for the club or any other place where a lot of people. Rapidly walk past him and "accidentally" touch his shoulder. Then turn around to him with a big smile and apologize. Most likely, he will smile in response. When he does, smile again and walk away. Communicating with friends, try to be in his field of vision. Sipping his drink, occasionally catch his eye and smile at him. If he didn't take your signals, we will invite you to dance. Dancing with him, you will be able to take another step on the path to convergence, after all, to talk on a loud dance floor, you need to speak to the partner's ear.
This method is good for the club or any other place where a lot of people. Rapidly walk past him and "accidentally" touch his shoulder. Then turn around to him with a big smile and apologize. Most likely, he will smile in response. When he does, smile again and walk away. Communicating with friends, try to be in his field of vision. Sipping his drink, occasionally catch his eye and smile at him. If he didn't take your signals, we will invite you to dance. Dancing with him, you will be able to take another step on the path to convergence, after all, to talk on a loud dance floor, you need to speak to the partner's ear.
5
Be adventurous.
In the bar ask the waiter what drink that the young man, and went to his table, the same drink along with a note. If it happens in a café, send him a gift in the form of something sweet, for example cupcake, accompanied by a present with a napkin with your name and phone number. You can also ask him to keep you company.
Any guy would be such a pleasant sign of attention, and if he did not react, he's probably just boring. However, if you think he's just shy, walk up to him and start a conversation.
In the bar ask the waiter what drink that the young man, and went to his table, the same drink along with a note. If it happens in a café, send him a gift in the form of something sweet, for example cupcake, accompanied by a present with a napkin with your name and phone number. You can also ask him to keep you company.
Any guy would be such a pleasant sign of attention, and if he did not react, he's probably just boring. However, if you think he's just shy, walk up to him and start a conversation.
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