Advice 1: How to behave with his wife's lover

Before the sudden outbreak of passion will not stand nearly not one person, regardless of age and social status. As they say, love all ages... But if your lover is a married man, have to play by special rules.
How to behave with his wife's lover
Instruction
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If you manage to have an intimate relationship with a "married guy", moderate your feminine curiosity – don't try to see her to see if she's prettier than you, smarter or skinnier. Of course, the presence of a rival is a very powerful incentive for improving self-esteem, but nevertheless...From what you will see and I am pleased to say that it is less attractive, nothing will change. After all, you know that, despite your superiority, every day he returns to her, share with her the same bed and shared the bread. So something keeps him with her. This feeling sooner or later you develop an inferiority complex, you are always going to be introspective on "And yet- what is this, why is she better than me?".
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Moreover, do not search for meetings with the wife of your beloved. Why should you? To talk, to open her eyes to her husband with hope that he'll marry you when she file for divorce? Look at things realistically – if he left his wife in the first few months of your relationship, is unlikely to dare to do it. Surely he can think of a lot of reasons: small children, the overall business, a sudden illness of the wife... Who wants - searches for possibilities who does not want – looking for reasons. Think about it. If he wanted to break up with her, he would have found a way to divide business and to explain to children. He just loves her much more than you do, and you will have to live with it.
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If you are familiar with your partner's wife, don't try to get her best friend to "keep their finger on the pulse" and know about their lover all. To decide on such an act can only be a very mean person who doesn't care about questions of morality and morals. Imagine what will be her condition, if she accidentally finds out about your intimate relationships? Her husband's mistress, every day I pretend is her best friend, found the strength to look into the eyes of the husband and where she sleeps.

Advice 2: How to know that my wife does not like

If the wife was to give you less time, then it is worth considering, if she has feelings for you? You can it is no longer interested in, and then the best way out is separation. Although this method is very painful, especially if you love your wife, but it's better than to suffer with the unloved man. Let's find out what points to the dislike of wife to you.
Fight
You will need
  • Wife, observation, patience
Instruction
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1) a Woman who does not love does not want intimacy.
Sexual relationships are the key to a happy marriage. Regular sex helps to improve mood, strengthen relationships, and love for a spouse. If a woman constantly avoids bed, then maybe she is not interested man. Also, she could appear a lover who satisfies her completely.
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2) Wife does not respect you.
Husband and wife – two relatives of a person who should respect each other. It was on respect and understanding in relationships. Respecting a loved one for care, understanding and diligence, you once again show your love. Respect the interests of his second half. He did not impose his opinion, because everyone is entitled to their point of view. If your wife is constantly trying to humiliate you, focuses on your weaknesses, but does not see the advantages and not paying attention to your needs, then she doesn't love and appreciate you.
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3) Favorite constantly looking at other men.
When the wife out on the street all the time stares at other men who buys women's magazines with their pictures, watching movies, where there is a lot of guys, then you should consider her attitude towards you. A woman who feels sympathy for his elect, will never pay attention to strange men, because she only needs her other half.
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4) the Wife does not want to spend time with you.
Family relationships involve constant sitting in each other's company. Watching a movie, going to the movies or a restaurant joint cleaning – these are things that unite people in love. If your wife constantly tries to get away from you, citing a date with your girlfriends or going to your mother, then you can tell her you are not interested. Woman avoids your company, then when she bored with you.
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5) the Woman constantly scandals.
How long have you heard the accusations in your direction? If this happens all the time and no day without scandal, then you should consider her feelings for you. In this case the wife can make a scandal out of nothing. It is unlikely that the woman you care about will test your nerves to the test and constantly annoy you.
How do you know that <strong>wife</strong> does not like
Note
Sometimes some of the reasons that indicate that wife doesn't love you, may be a different story. Therefore, before drawing final conclusions, we should talk about exactly what is happening with his wife.
Useful advice
To know how does you wife will help only your powers of observation. Don't listen to other people's advice, even if it's close relatives. Draw your own conclusions.

Advice 3: How to behave to her husband with his wife

Now in a country dominated by gender equality, and the old family model where unconditional was considered the head man in the past. However, the role of the husband is still very significant. It was from him depends largely on whether the family is strong, happy, or it will constantly be quarrels, scandals, threatening to collapse.
How to behave to her husband with his wife
Instruction
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First and foremost you must understand that, being married, voluntarily has assumed serious obligations, the responsibility as to the woman who had to marry you, and to your future children. A real man must be a pillar of the family, its protector, and no equity will not annul this truth. Therefore, it is necessary to behave to his wife next to you was quiet, comfortable, and she could proudly say: "For the husband as behind a stone wall!".
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Treat your wife with love, care, understanding. Women are more emotional and vulnerable, especially due to their physiology, so sometimes you have to be patient. But, of course, in any case can not her all to indulge, to become a "henpecked". It does not honor the man, and children are a bad example. Respect must be mutual!
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Of course, women, in addition to advantages, there are drawbacks (as, indeed, men). But a loving husband will try to see in his wife only advantages, and will be lenient to her faults. In extreme cases, will openly talk with her, explaining that it is in her habits, tastes you don't like, but in a tactful, polite manner. Comments in any case should not be insensitive, and even more insulting.
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You must remember the wise Maxim: "Judge not by words but by deeds". Of course, it is very important to praise his wife, to tell her compliments, kind words. But along with this, we have to help her around the house. Any man can quite take some part of household chores, e.g., vacuuming the apartment, take out the garbage, go shopping for groceries. A woman will appreciate such help appreciated.
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Your special love and care will be required during his wife's pregnancy. In the body of the expectant mother, is a real hormonal storm, so pregnant women become highly irritable, often crying, depressed, proud of the deteriorating appearance, can make a scene literally out of the blue. Even if you think such a life a real nightmare, restrain yourself and understand that it is not the will of a woman, she is not to blame.
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When your baby is born, everything will come to normal. It is necessary to surround his wife with attention and care, to convince her that everything will be okay, and for you it is still the most favorite and beautiful.

Advice 4: How to discourage your wife from lover

Some time you were happily married and nothing seemed to be do not spoil your marriage. And then you found out that his wife is cheating on you. Of course, you think how best to proceed. There can't be one effective strategy for all. Human relations is a sensitive area, requiring an individual approach for each case.
How to discourage your wife from lover
Instruction
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First, weigh the pros and cons. Decide whether you want to save the relationship with his wife or they're all doomed anyway. To do this, consider whether there is your fault in the cheating wife, pushed it to it's you, or the tendency to infidelity is a property of its nature. If the fault still lies on you, you can try to fix that.
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Analyze what you did wrong, you were wrong in your wife relations. Perhaps some nuances she have already pointed out, and you didn't pay attention. If you are willing to make concessions, talk to your wife heart to heart, let her know that her words and desires are important to you. But don't tell her what you know about her lover, or she may decide that it is a good means of manipulating you, and will change in the future.
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Perhaps, the wife received little attention from you make it right. Give her flowers, invite to the cinema or restaurant, as in the days of honeymoon period. Often spend time together and communicate. Try to find a common hobby or interest and join them together. In other words, refresh your senses. Let the wife remember, that fell in love with you.
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Become attractive again for his wife. If you have problems with your fitness, join a gym. Start eating right, we can do it together with his wife, if she is interested. If you're used to after work to spend time in front of the TV or computer, show more activity. Help wife around the house or come up with an interesting occupation for himself or for the whole family. Let the wife see you as an interesting person.
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If the wife started to get change because of infidelity on your part, be ready to improve. If you are willing to be faithful, tell the wife about it. Explain to her how you care and that you are willing to be with her. If you do change, you can't demand loyalty from the partner.
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If, on the contrary, you are family-oriented and the wife is cheating for the love of the thrill, try to act the opposite. Make you jealous. Poflirtovat with other women, for example, colleagues. It should not be too apparent, but the wife must understand that you are attractive to other women. Most likely, then partner will appreciate you more and fear of losing.
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If you still blew off the dust from his wife and was more interested in the person in your relationship, try the opposite tactic. If the wife believes you to be passionate about it and willing to forgive all, it can change, hoping that she'll get away with it. In this case you should do what you expect. Show indifference to its connection on the side. Pay less attention to it. More work and spend time with friends. This may make your wife miss you and your attention, she'll want to regain your love and leave a lover.
Useful advice
Determine whether a wife cheated on you. Because unchecked speculation ruined a lot of relationships.

Advice 5: How to be a wife and lover

The second half of the lover can be a serious problem in relationship of couples. Or, conversely, to be a nice addition to a romantic relationship. It all depends on how the mistress to build a relationship with the lawful wife of her lover.
How to be a wife and lover
Instruction
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If your goal is to get a man in undivided use, to stand on ceremony with his wife not necessarily. So you can just tell her about your affair with her man. In most cases, the offended opponent kicked unfaithful husband out of the house. However, this method is fraught with the fact that your lover may never forgive such initiatives and this will not to you.
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Much easier, say the psychologists, not to go into conflict with the wife of your beloved, but instead, befriend her. However, be prepared for the fact that not every betrayed woman will want to have something in common. Own initiative does not show, wait for that moment when you realize that it is not only ready, but she wants to meet with you and talk.
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Be ready, to gain her trust and agree that a you will share one man in two will be difficult. However, nothing is impossible. Just if you both are wise enough to understand her husband and lover, and then to find a common language easier. After all, there are a number of men who lack only one woman. And with this they can not do anything. If they have the ability to adequately contain both one and the other woman, and to negotiate will be easy.
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Alternatively, you can just accept its presence, the truth is not to seek and be content with your position mistress. This is one of the easiest ways to co-exist with my wife's lover - don't need to see anyone, nothing to discuss and consider. If you agree to always settle for the role of the second plan, then the spouse of the man she loved to bother not necessarily.
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The main rule, do not rush to the explanatory conversations, accusations and arguments without thinking. To start, sit, breathe and think carefully about everything. Weigh all the pros and cons of either of your decision, think about what awaits you when you open the card before the wife loved. If you are tired of being a mistress and want a stable relationship, not necessarily to destroy someone else's family. Simply put the point in the novel with a non-free man and find a partner suitable to you only.
Useful advice
Whichever option you choose, try to leave the situation with dignity. Do not make the scandals and ugly showdown. After all it is your happiness "illegally". So you less than anyone should present itself as a victim.

Advice 6: What if the husband found out about the lover

Sooner or later the treachery of one of the spouses may open, however, even such a seemingly hopeless situation can have a calm and peaceful resolution.
What if the husband found out about the lover

Female infidelity



If a man finds out about the betrayal of his wife, the beloved should have a serious talk. That's just before the conversation the wife has for itself to decide whether she wants to continue to preserve the family and to beg her husband for forgiveness or, perhaps, to collect things and to leave this person in the past. If the second options are of course, in the case of the first, the fairer sex have to do serious work on the bugs. However, in any case, most likely, a big scandal can not be avoided.


How to keep the family together after the infidelity of the wife



Remember that in a situation of adultery of the wife cannot be to blame only the woman. Try to understand the reason for the betrayal. Most often these include the inattention of her husband, banal boredom, suspicion of male infidelity, or a new love. Once you become clear on why you decided to take this step, be well prepared to the conversation with the beloved, as the spouse will begin to question about who he is his opponent, how long have you had contact with him, what feelings you feel about him.

Select the right time for this difficult conversation and try to tell me what exactly was the reason for your infidelity. Be patient and be prepared for the fact that her husband just will not listen to you. In this case, you will have to wait until then, until it has cooled and he did not raise this issue. Apologize to your loved ones, promise never to commit such mistakes. Most likely, if the spouse decides to give you a second chance, you for a long time will have to return his trust.

Try to return to this subject, more interested in what excites your husband (men love it when they listen, be attentive, patient, gentle, spending more time together with your loved ones, more likely to remember the pleasant moments spent together years, pay special attention to your intimate life and create a romantic mood.

If the spouse decides not to forgive you and ask for a divorce, do not arrange hysterics and scandals, remember, partly you yourself have destroyed your love. Release this man, give him a chance to become happy in other ways. Besides, you will soon find the person that will never betray. Eventually everything will fall into place, so do not despair, to suffer and fall into depression.
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