Do not rush to throw his messages and offers to start all over again. Take some time, so the guy realized that he was without you strange and bad. Immediately after the breakup will stop communication with him for a while. You don't have to meet him and to call at least a couple of weeks.
Use this time to change yourself for the better. For example, do sports, yoga or fitness, to make your figure look more attractive. Change the style in clothes, so he could see you in a new way. Your goal is to surprise him at our next meeting.
But the changes must touch not only your appearance. Try to change your character. For sure, that boy didn't like in your behavior or actions. Use this temporary respite to become perfect. Of course, it is not necessary to go to radical steps for the sake of it and correct in yourself what you like the most. In any situation you need to be first and foremost a person and not to be someone's shadow.
After 2-4 weeks you should meet with your ex. Meeting the best thing to do is unplanned. For example, to visit the places where he is most. But we should not constantly spin in place, he may guess about your goal. And then the meeting is unlikely to take place successfully.
The meeting should be a surprise
During the meeting does not clarify the relationship, do not quarrel with him. Chat about nothing, ask him how he was doing. It is not necessary to think about your previous feelings. The purpose of the meeting was to remind myself and show how much you have changed. After a few days, such an "unexpected" meeting should be repeated. And her to talk about the already scheduled date.
The next meeting does not necessarily have to be romantic. If the guy himself didn't offer you to meet, then come up with a reason why he needs to see you again. For example, you can ask to go with you shopping. But it is only in the case that this pastime like a young man. You can ask to fix something in the house or to help deal with the computer. Ask, even if you have everything in order, and in the computer you know better than him. Break the lock, hook, lift the flooring, but create the perfect situation for your meeting.
The next date we can begin to remember the past. Of course, emphasis should be laid on the pleasant moments. Just do not cry and do not quarrel with him, so you will never resume a relationship. Be gentle and docile, the faster you will win man. Do not show your sadness, he must not understand that you need too much. If the meeting is held at your home, don't forget to buy the young man something delicious, preferably cooked by your caring hands.
These scheduled meetings should be as much as possible. As well as cute, lots of fun. Just affection and attention you will be able to return the old relationship.