British scientists have conducted a series of experiments and found that only one second of time, when people look into each other's eyes, they get this amount of information, which can obtain three hours of active communication. Part of the reason to look in the eyes is always a very difficult and a person has to look to take.
In addition, it is proved that when a man constantly looks at the other and eye to eye, this is very annoying and makes you nervous. It seems that he tries to "read". And do not want anyone.
In some cases the movement of eyes to the side when talking is considered a sign of shyness, which is confirmed scientifically. Look you can give all their attitude to the object, interest, and love, and commitment make eyes Shine in a special way. And if a person wants you to understand his feelings right now (maybe too early?), he will not be able to look you in the eye constantly.
It is impossible to look in the eye, and the man who look "barabasi heavy. Already the very first seconds of communication with the interlocutor becomes very uncomfortable, unpleasant and uncomfortable. Such a view pushes and forces you to look away to the side.
Self-doubt - another point, why people can not look straight in the eye. If your partner something during the conversation moves to his hands, nervously crumples the napkin, pulls at the ears, nose or hair, thus it produces a deep emotion. Which means he will avoid direct eye contact, so as not confident in his actions. And not know what to do now and which look most appropriate for you to "send".
Of course, there are those cases when people are not looking in the eyes simply because the latter was not interested in him. Then sense to share information both verbal and non-verbal no. To recognize that the reason is boredom need as quickly as possible, so as not to lead useless conversations. Besides, to make it simple enough. In addition to the lowered glance of the man will show other signs of disinterest: underline glancing at his watch, occasionally yawning, the constant interruption of conversation under the pretext of answering a phone call etc. In this case it is better to say goodbye with someone as soon as possible.
Want not to have problems with communication, train yourself not to look away when talking. Then it will be easier for you and to make new friends, and build a working relationship.
