Masturbation
Sex education has always worried parents. Sometimes this is due to the fact that in their time, this question was not interested, sometimes just because not every parent knows how to talk about sex growing up with the child. The problem is that people do not call a spade a spade. We can hear the words: "it", "it", "you had it", one word instead of "sex." It all starts with the concealment of the fact of sexual acts between adults, it is fundamentally wrong.
Masturbation, as already proved by scientists, a positive effect on women's health, especially if it is a long period of not having sex. So there is nothing wrong in a child's Masturbation is not.
It all starts with a simple child's interest. Many still in the garden begin to show interest in the genitals of boys and girls. Children learn about the world in all its manifestations, and nothing wrong with that. Usually, first time Masturbation happens unconsciously. The girl as if there is some kind of obscure desire. Sometimes, examining his genitals, he'll feel something nice. After the first time baby consciously starts to masturbate.
What to do?
The task of every parent not to punish the girl for it. In General, it is impossible to hurt a child, especially not without a reason. If you notice that the child is masturbating, and the other person can also see. So talk to your child. Ask not scratched if girls labia if there are any wounds or something like that. There are times when Masturbation is merely the effect of diseased genitals, because even little girls can be a yeast infection. If the child is really ill, immediately take him to the doctor, start the treatment.
If the reason is having fun, then you need to explain to the girl what is really going on. Try to tell me what to expect in the future, why she wants to do, why she likes it. Remember that sex and Masturbation are two essential process that is needed for women's health. Most importantly, explain to your child that in no event it is impossible to masturbate on people and in public places. Explain that to do such things only in private.
Your main task - to raise a little girl to understand why you cannot have sex with the first boy, why can't you masturbate when someone looks at her. To do this, from childhood, teach your child etiquette and serve his own example, especially mothers.
After 12 years, perhaps earlier, the child must have to conduct interviews that will talk about sexual intercourse, about why having sex two adults. We should not focus on the fact that sex is necessary only in order to conceive and to perform the conjugal duty. Try as much as possible openly tell the child what is the process and what is its essence, but do not forget that it is a child.
