Instruction
1
Assess the situation. If we are talking about a short-lived affair that is easy to put an end to, all of the advantages on your side. Often, however, there are cases when a married man meets another woman and realizes that it is her he wants to be always. His wife's attempts to get him back can succeed, but is unlikely to bring happiness into the family.
2
Keep calm. If you do decide to return to the family of their loved one, tears, tantrums and scandals will only worsen the situation. You can cry alone, but spouse should not do it. However, the ostentatious joy is also useless. You must demonstrate a willingness to engage in constructive dialogue, and not to the exhausting showdown.
3
Do not show your spouse that you want to return it. Show that you care, and his treason is painful for you and painful, but your life is not stopped, the world around collapsed. In any case, don't be obsessive, don't call or stalk. Try to excite her husband's interest, respect and desire to return myself.
4
If you are aware of the identity of the mistress, gather minimal information about it. It is not necessary to go too far and find out all the details, you guys are useless. However, to know with whom you are dealing with is unlikely to be superfluous.
5
Emphasize the pleasant moments of the past. Honeymoon trip to the sea, the period of courtship, a funny situation: all this you can remember sometimes as if by chance. Try to do it, when the spouse is in a good mood.
6
Change the image, but not dramatically. Make an interesting haircut, update your wardrobe, be sure to get rid of your old clothes and buy new pretty things. Such changes will give you confidence and make her husband look at you differently.