Analyze why her husband left her for the former. The reasons may lie in the former the relations of men and in the present with you. The first group include such as the love he still feels for the former; a sense of guilt towards her; the desire to live together with their children, if any. The second group includes the lack of understanding in your family, lack of love, dissatisfaction, inconsistency of your behavior to his expectations.
If you find it difficult to determine the cause yourself, try to find an opportunity to meet the man and talk heart to heart. Ask him to explain his action. However, in no case do not humiliate and do not beg him to come back.
Try not to interrupt communication with the man, stay with dignity. Let him know that I respect his right to make decisions regarding your own personal life. Emphasize that you are a self-sufficient person who has pride, but no "stone in the bosom". Ask him to be friends.
If communication with the man broken, and you have no way to demonstrate this behaviour, just take a small time out. Do not look to see him, but do not shy from them, when a man will be such a desire. And the desire will appear, he will be intrigued: why don't you run after him and try to get it back.
Use the time you have to work on yourself. Try to fix all your husband said was not very flattering. And just take care of their appearance, trying to become more effective. Surround yourself with new fans and friends. Try to find and cultivate sources of joy and positive emotions.
If you know my husband about something long dreamed of, try alone to realize this dream. For example, he wanted to buy a car "Peugeot", but didn't have enough money. Do everything you can to acquire a car. If he thought about creating their own business, this field of activity can master you. Make your life attractive to him.
Never upset and do not reproach a man, gone and gone. When a customer calls or comes forward, demonstrate a good mood and friendliness. Say everything you do well. If he inquires to chance, admit that, Yes, you need to repair the door of the wardrobe and to change the light bulb in the stairwell, but it is not critical. If you offer help, do not give up, and accept and thank.
If you notice that the man is trying to appear at home to help, or for another reason, be careful not to scare him off by his behavior. Radiate beauty and sexuality, but it does not look like an attempt to deceive. Let them know that you are so every day, and he got here by accident.
If you feel that it is attracted to you, allow yourself to flirt. However, it is important not to do the first step.
Finally, there will come a time when a man wants intimacy with you or to hint that he wants to return. You, in turn, remind him that he lives with another woman, so now no relationship between you is impossible. Tell me, what are you going to arrange his personal life, and to be one of two things – it means not to fit into this plan. Man's logic will force him to agree. Now you will just have to wait for him to decide to break up with the former.