Instruction
1
So you have more chances to win in the competition for her man with another woman, cease to be tormented. Instead, it is simply vital to raise their self-esteem. So send away to the past of the idea that nobody needs you, that you are not attractive, stupid, etc. on the Contrary, convince yourself that you are the ideal, and better than you no one. Because a confident woman is a peaceful woman. And it is to this, and not to ever doubt yourself lady seeks male.
2
Take a short break — go to your mother, girlfriend or in the sanatorium for so many time as you feel necessary. You will need it to get my thoughts in order and figure out how to proceed. Spend this time as you see fit.
3
To connect to the share indifference. Don't call him, equip your leisure to have fun without her husband. Psychologists say: men are arranged so that you start to get nervous if his "normal" wife suddenly starts a new life in which his place may not be. In this case, the man starts to spend more time at home, trying to connect to family and... forgets about the mistress. He simply once to meet her.
4
As soon as your husband's attention again switches to the family, begin to gradually connect it to household Affairs and issues. Counsel with him, to once again remind him that he is the head of the family. Let the man feels that his family depends on him, and then he will have more responsibility for you and the house.
5
Of course, while there is such intense competition, do not throw a husband no scandals. Otherwise, he will turn around and go back where he was waiting for and I love the way he is.
6
Be sure to look at yourself in the mirror anew. Go to the beauty salon, spend the day at the SPA, I, Piekrastes, lose weight — in short, do something that will help you to change dramatically. The key word here is fundamentally. Your husband has a mistress because he couldn't novelty. And then you will be old and new at the same time. It is so unusual and intriguing.
Note
Never to return the husband in the family do not use technology, calling for the hype. For example, he's going on a date with her, and you pretend that you struck a heart attack. It is, of course, will stay home to run for medication at the pharmacy or call a doctor for you. But sooner or later he finds out the truth and then very mad at you. The kind of deception he can not forgive.
Useful advice
Remember that a mistress just give up too, will not. So it will be used against their counterattacks. Try not to succumb to provocations, to behave with dignity and calm. Your background lover will look as hysterical and quarrelsome woman. That, in turn, the pros, she adds.