You will need
  • - references, certificates and other evidence of insolvency of the former wife as a mother;
  • - appeal to the court.
Instruction
1
Soberly assess the situation before you go on about the emotions. Think about how will you be able to give the child everything he could get from the mother: maternal love and care, a woman's warmth and tenderness. If you said only the feeling of revenge, and you do not have sufficient reason to deprive ex-wife of her parental rights, you shouldn't take it out on the kid.
2
If your ex-wife is anti-social way of life (suffering from alcoholism, drug addiction), she has no normal conditions for education of the child, or she is sick with any dangerous mental illness, you have the right to demand that your child pay for the education of you.
3
Women themselves, in rare cases, voluntarily take their children to former husbands. So you have to go to court. You will need to provide evidence of drunk ex-wife, preventing her to perform her maternal duties. These can include certificates from the medical institutions in which it currently is registered, or the testimony of witnesses confirming the irresponsibility and incapacity of the child's mother.
4
Sometimes when deciding, the court takes into account and less important factors: the lack of the mother material resources, lack of time for child rearing, etc. But such indirect causes are taken into account by the judges is still much less. You will be able to win the case, just being able to prove that staying with mother is seriously prejudicial to the interests of the child or is a danger to his life.
5
Do not engage in falsification of any information and testimony, it is a criminal offense. In addition, thereby you give my ex-wife and her lawyer to represent you is not in the best light in front of the judges and lose the minimum the chances of an outcome in your favor.
6
The most reasonable effort to act for the good of the child, and to preserve his right to contact with both parents.