Instruction
1
Try to negotiate with the wife peacefully. Most likely, it will go about receiving child custody and the division of responsibility. In particular, in Western countries have long used the split custody in half, in which the child lives with the mother and father equal amount of time, e.g. two weeks in the month. However, in Russia such a system is not developed and will be adopted only if it will agree both parents.
2
Gather evidence of misconduct of the wife, if any. In particular, the basis for the transfer of the child may be alcoholism or drunkenness ex-wife, her illness drug addiction and abuse with the child. Your witnesses can be relatives, neighbors and other persons. If you have documents proving mental zabolevanie spouses, they should also be present. Note that the testimony of the child would be taken into consideration after the execution he dasati years, and before that - only in exceptional cases, for example when physical violence.
3
If the new spouse or cohabitant of the mother leads an antisocial way of life and using violence to the child, you can sue and demand that the child lived with you.
4
Wait until the child reaches the age of 10 years. To deprive his mother of custody is possible only with very serious evidence of her unsuitability for the education of children. After 10 years, the child receives the right to choose, with whom from parents he wishes to live, and could choose his father. So if you failed to get custody of a small child, do not lose touch with them afterwards - there's a chance that he will choose life with you.
Note
Some people seek to solve the problem without trial, just pick up the child. Indeed, such actions cannot be considered illegal until such time as the court has not made a final decision about determination of the place of residence of the child. After that, if the decision was in favor of the mother, she will be able to take your child with the help of bailiffs.
