There are cases, when after quarrel with a loved one saying "I'm sorry" is not enough to resolve the conflict. What should I do? First, do not make an attempt to atone for guilt in an empty meaningless gesture. Show that you sincerely regret and are concerned about what I did. Apologize to him and compensate the damage.
Second, determine whether your apology in this situation. Consider all your actions, in order to understand why your actions hurt a loved one. To do this, try to put yourself in the place of its second half.
Thirdly, find the right words to apologize to the guy. So your words have touched the right notes in his heart, tell that you really value your relationship. But try not to say it won't happen again, as themselves can thus be trapped.
Fourthly, suggest appropriate ways to remedy the situation. Depending on what you did wrong, find alternatives to show a guy how much you are attached to it, or to recover the lost the confidence of their actions.
Fifth, try to draw the right lesson from their actions. Yes, of course, not very nice to admit their mistakes and apologize for them, but it can be called a preventive measure to prevent similar cases. At least if you do it once, do not want more to experience the same sensation in the future.
Sometimes it is easier to establish a relationship, if the excuses to touch your beloved's hand or sit with him next to anything to touch him. Tactile contact helps to convey the feelings and emotions that we cannot Express it in words.
When apology is better not to use phrases that imply some sort of payoff. For example, do not suggest the guy to go to a restaurant, promising to pay for it. Also don't ask him how to make amends. This implies that you his mistake did not realize.
Advice 2: How to apologize to a guy
Some girls are very emotional and do not always know how to restrain myself. And so easy to hurt a loved one, not even wanting to do this spur of the moment he uttered a bunch of nonsense. After some time necessarily comes remorse and understanding that the guy need to apologize. It's not easy to do, because, on the one hand, it prevents the pride, and with another – the internal awareness of the wrongs that you have caused to man and his own indecision. How to apologize?
If you have something you "blurted out" without thinking, but still not caused any serious insults to the young man, better not wait too long. Demonstrating its pride and strength, you exacerbate the problem, which may not be worth a damn. Too long waiting for something, you may lose the chance to explain. Then you already may not want to listen. Therefore, it is not necessary to invent anything or use my feminine wiles. Just go to the guy and ask forgiveness for their stupidity.
In the same case, if your heart was erupting, it was too much, and you are very much hurt a man, give him time to cool down. When his offense is slightly down, he more relaxed you will be met and listen. But too long to apologize still not worth it because you will be misunderstood. Who needs a feisty lady who can't admit their mistakes?
It is always better to apologize in person, meet the man in some convenient place, where nobody would interfere. It is not necessary to apologize or note of apology through a friend. First, it would be cowardice on your part and, secondly, will be involved in your showdown people who know about it do not have. If a guy avoids meeting with you, we can arrange "accidental" meeting with him at a friends party, etc.
When you speak, look the guy in the eye, because aside glance, usually perceived as insincerity and mendacity. Don't forget to call the guy by name. Psychologists believe that it is a prerequisite for establishing contact. Then say that you are very ashamed for saying silly words, that you unjustly offended him that you were upset, and very sorry about that. Can you tell me about how you love this man and what he is good, attentive, kind etc And ask you to forgive. Then stop and wait for forgiveness. Do not try to recount the course of your argument, explain why you could not resist, and, especially, "to translate arrows" on the guy, shifting the blame on his shoulders. It is no good will not result.
Often girls during a touchy conversation with the men resorting to such a strong argument like sobs, as has long been known that most men can't stand the sight of female tears. Can you try and bury yourself in his chest and cry, then hug and kiss. But whether to do it, decide for yourself, because your man may not be related to the accepted stereotype.
If you know your boyfriend, known to you and all of his weaknesses. That means you can use any other form of apology. For example, invite him to dinner and cook his favorite dish. Or give him what he wanted. Send a TEXT with verses, or take it for some crazy thing to do. But in any case, be sincere and show your beloved that you realize his guilt and repent.