Actually, if you think about it, abusive swearing is not just unethical. It is also an expression of contempt for the opinions of others. So why not swear?
It is known that language can be used to Express emotions (in the case of failures, conflicts and so on) and a bunch of words. In the second case, swear words are often "patch the gap" in vocabulary. If it is poor, there are "well", "shorter", and if the person is still rude and some language. People are so accustomed to the Mat, that it becomes a bad habit, get rid of that is no easier than, for example, to quit drinking or Smoking.
If the person without the Mat can not, it means that he has any complexes, he simply can not properly build his speech. But some swear so brilliantly, that it seems as if the art of man perfected all his life. But in any case to listen to foul-mouthed unpleasant.
Especially need to pay attention to his speech to the people, who have small children. Kids easy, literally on the fly catch every word, repeating mom and dad. So watch what you say. Even if you accidentally hit the hammer on the toe or slipped and fell, not the mother.
Think in advance, what can you say in such cases. Because the Mat is very easy to replace on interjections, in the Russian language which abound. Watch not only for lack of speech, swear words, and purity of the language as a whole. Let there be words-parasites, a variety of jargon. Make it a strict rule.
But if the child is "brought" a bad word from kindergarten or school, will need to talk to him, firmly but gently enough. Explain to your child that foul language is ugly. Give examples of when the swear words and expression let people down, put them in an unpleasant situation.
There are cases when the child hears somewhere a dirty word and asks the parents to explain its meaning. Tell us what is a word only bad people who want to offend anyone. If you explain it gently and correctly, then most likely, your children will not want to use to communicate with you and with peers of words that does not serve as an ornament of the great Russian language.
Advice 2: Why do people swear
C abusive words are familiar to many. They are pretty easy to "fall into language", but very painful, "cut the ears". Probably, it is impossible to find a person who never in my life heard swear words from other people or from swearing himself. Why do people do it?
The position of the leader
Many heads of departments in the factories are trying to demonstrate their "closeness to the people" and to show its importance, talking with the workers in a language they understand. Such people believe that the Mat is an integral part of the conversation the boss who can easily communicate with subordinates. Cursing, heads over and over again to show others and to yourself personally, your "leader". Such a conversation is constructed in a unilateral direction toward the workers, i.e., the leader curses "top-down", knowing that subordinates are unable to respond in the same way.
Many people have the habit of swearing appears from childhood. There are times that the Mat comes out of the home environment or quality of life, but often the first "bad" words a child learns and utters another in kindergarten. As a teenager, due to the Mat of the person trying to assert themselves and show their "coolness". Talking "all", it is easier to join a new company and become her own. The years pass, people grow, but the habit of swearing does not disappear.
Most people, regardless of their area of activity and age of obscene language to Express some strong emotions and ease the soul. In this case, psychologists believe that obscene language performs a positive function – helping the discharge of human and relieves internal stress. Because some people are quite impulsive and can bring the case to blows. So many of them believe that it is better ugly "to swear" than to resort to arms.
Many people suffer from a childhood disease – "I'm not like everyone else and will act contrary to the prohibitions". As you know, forbidden fruit is sweet. Unfortunately, not all people understand that swearing, they just show their incivility and disrespect for others. You must learn to control myself and not swear in inappropriate places, even if you want to stand out.