The confrontation between fathers and children is known since ancient times. Extreme forms result in a difficult situation, namely, leaving home the baby. It happens that this occurs on the initiative of parents. Actions in such cases must be taken immediately.
Often such situation occur in families where children are in their Teens. In this case, the child needs to think, whether the cause of the scandal. Boyish, rude and not quite adequate behavior can bring parents to extreme desperation, and the heat of the moment they decide to expel the child. Teenager should temper his zeal and resentment. 15 - 16 years a go you still have nowhere to run too nowhere. The first is to apologize to the parents. Talk heart to heart, will solve your problem at least partially. The scandal due to lack of pocket money is not worth the destruction of the family and their lives.
The situation is different if the perpetrators become parents. No grown man will decide to put their child out the door without good reason. If the child is certainly not the instigator of the scandal and does not behave selfishly, then the step parent should serve as a reason for seeking the guardianship. Especially if the situation is repeated not for the first time.
Practical advice in a situation when you were on the street without money and a place to sleep, may be the following: go to the next of kin. Grandmothers, aunts, cousins, sisters and brothers - all of them, regardless of previous relationships, become your friends and helpers. Friends you can also spend the night, but it is unlikely you will be able to live with them for more than a few days.
Most likely, your first night away from home parents will understand the haste of the decision and will find a way to bring you back. If not, will have to act independently. As mentioned above, you can contact the guardianship (if you are under 18). If you spelled out in the house from which you were expelled, contact the police. With representatives of the authorities, you will return to your rightful home, regardless of the wishes of the parents.
In any situation it is better to seek reconciliation.
Advice 2: What should parents do if the child has no friends
"My child has no friends. Try to invite classmates to visit, to organize birthdays, but it didn't help. I'm afraid if it will affect the child's development. This suffers not only the child, but I do. Pick on him for it, and then regret it. What to do, how to do?"
The rights of one who is concerned that a son (daughter) can't find friends. What is the cause of loneliness and how to help your child?
Of course, in human life plays an important role dealing with people. Without society we are nothing. Remember the story about Mowgli? When there is no communication, no development. Therefore, parents should be paid to this factor in the life of their child special attention.
Parent – the first and only teacher who can teach life and attitude better than any school. For example, mom and dad, children learn to communicate with people and connecting with them contact, to resolve the conflicts. If parents themselves do not have close friends, there is very little conversation between themselves and the child, then sooner or later he will make for himself the same communicative model. But who wants his child grew up a pacifist and avoided people?
Although the lack of friends may be another reason, even if parents have a bunch of their friends, and in the house constantly jostle for guests. It happens that a child just can't find a common language with their peers. In this case, parents can develop their child's communication skills.
No theory, constant exhausting conversations with the baby about what he needs to find friends that will not lead to the desired result. It is a dense ring, which often enter into mom of his children, is often the cause of loneliness to their kids. Do not ever cling to the heart, to sigh, to impose their anxiety for no reason. Excessive concern about the failure of the child's communication with peers give rise to it shyness, complexes. The trembling mother, who is constantly attacking and constantly asks if he's found friends, able to close the little man even more.
Psychologists often suggest parents to let go of the situation and not to panic, not to burden the child with their dark thoughts. Yet unformed child's mind requires a soft, meaningful approach. Better to act slowly and not to strive at any cost to get at least some friends.
The main task of parents is to help your child to overcome all difficulties. Not to leave on their own, and to be close and gently, gently push to action. A sure way to give him practice of communication is to bring to the yard, on the outdoor Playground. The parent must by example show how to communicate and that is great! Connect with other moms, engage in dialogues with children playing nearby. You should never tell the child, "there's a girl sitting in the sandbox, go play with her." In the sandbox you need to go together. Parents should help to communicate with other children using simple questions, to teach them to change from kids toys, to give their cars and dolls to play with others. But don't constantly stand over their child and to monitor his actions. Hyper to anything. Of these children, near which are constantly hovering, like vultures, parents usually dislike. And the child always controlling mother does not relax and become acquainted.
In an effort to find the child, friends many parents forget that in friendship the important thing is not the quantity but the quality. Therefore, we should not impose his offspring certain children. If a potential "friend" he doesn't like, don't insist on further communication. As they say, love can not be. Make sure those of peers attracts him the most. And encourage all his contacts, even fleeting.
A common activity brings people together, everyone knows that. On this basis, parents should determine her quiet in a circle or any sport involving team play. Classes where every man for himself, is not suitable. Football, volleyball or, for example, pairs figure skating – the best sports. In General, the main thing - to diversify leisure child, and not to limit communication only adults.
It so happens that the child did not survive from the fact that he had no close friends. He does not cause discomfort the lack thereof. If he behaves calm and he was all like, he complains about the lack of communication, then, all right. So, your child is so constituted that he is well and without constant communication. In this case, you should talk to a psychologist. Maybe your kid is an introvert. He is good with itself, it is interesting to sit in front of a computer, a TV, read a book. Then the task of parents is to ensure that the child is not closed in on itself.
Of course, in human life plays an important role dealing with people. Without society we are nothing. Remember the story about Mowgli? When there is no communication, no development. Therefore, parents should be paid to this factor in the life of their child special attention.
Parent – principal assistant
Parent – the first and only teacher who can teach life and attitude better than any school. For example, mom and dad, children learn to communicate with people and connecting with them contact, to resolve the conflicts. If parents themselves do not have close friends, there is very little conversation between themselves and the child, then sooner or later he will make for himself the same communicative model. But who wants his child grew up a pacifist and avoided people?
Although the lack of friends may be another reason, even if parents have a bunch of their friends, and in the house constantly jostle for guests. It happens that a child just can't find a common language with their peers. In this case, parents can develop their child's communication skills.
To be tolerant and wise
No theory, constant exhausting conversations with the baby about what he needs to find friends that will not lead to the desired result. It is a dense ring, which often enter into mom of his children, is often the cause of loneliness to their kids. Do not ever cling to the heart, to sigh, to impose their anxiety for no reason. Excessive concern about the failure of the child's communication with peers give rise to it shyness, complexes. The trembling mother, who is constantly attacking and constantly asks if he's found friends, able to close the little man even more.
Psychologists often suggest parents to let go of the situation and not to panic, not to burden the child with their dark thoughts. Yet unformed child's mind requires a soft, meaningful approach. Better to act slowly and not to strive at any cost to get at least some friends.
To act and to be consistent
The main task of parents is to help your child to overcome all difficulties. Not to leave on their own, and to be close and gently, gently push to action. A sure way to give him practice of communication is to bring to the yard, on the outdoor Playground. The parent must by example show how to communicate and that is great! Connect with other moms, engage in dialogues with children playing nearby. You should never tell the child, "there's a girl sitting in the sandbox, go play with her." In the sandbox you need to go together. Parents should help to communicate with other children using simple questions, to teach them to change from kids toys, to give their cars and dolls to play with others. But don't constantly stand over their child and to monitor his actions. Hyper to anything. Of these children, near which are constantly hovering, like vultures, parents usually dislike. And the child always controlling mother does not relax and become acquainted.
Don't overdo it
In an effort to find the child, friends many parents forget that in friendship the important thing is not the quantity but the quality. Therefore, we should not impose his offspring certain children. If a potential "friend" he doesn't like, don't insist on further communication. As they say, love can not be. Make sure those of peers attracts him the most. And encourage all his contacts, even fleeting.
To develop fully
A common activity brings people together, everyone knows that. On this basis, parents should determine her quiet in a circle or any sport involving team play. Classes where every man for himself, is not suitable. Football, volleyball or, for example, pairs figure skating – the best sports. In General, the main thing - to diversify leisure child, and not to limit communication only adults.
To see in your child an introvert
It so happens that the child did not survive from the fact that he had no close friends. He does not cause discomfort the lack thereof. If he behaves calm and he was all like, he complains about the lack of communication, then, all right. So, your child is so constituted that he is well and without constant communication. In this case, you should talk to a psychologist. Maybe your kid is an introvert. He is good with itself, it is interesting to sit in front of a computer, a TV, read a book. Then the task of parents is to ensure that the child is not closed in on itself.
Advice 3: How to kick husband
You have decided to leave my husband, because we don't love him and don't want to put up with his constant drinking and partying, vulgarity and rudeness. You told him about his decision, but he did not want to change and not going away. The most radical way out of this situation – to drive her husband. How to do it better, we will tell you.
Instruction
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Declare husband about the impossibility of your future life together and his decision to break up with him and explain the necessity of his departure from the apartment (if it belongs to you).
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Cease to care for her husband: do not prepare and do not feed him, do not wash and ironed. He's doing everything himself, maybe he soon tired of the dirty shirt and the store products.
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Make him all sorts of petty nastiness: don't let the night blanket, throw his cigarettes (if he smokes), don't allow them to bring friends. Let's not watch TV or switch the TV with his beloved, for example, sports channel, to something else (better if it will be a women's channel).
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Talk in the presence of her husband on the phone puzzling omissions, even if this is your friend. Let him think that you are talking with a man. When you leave the house, do so that the husband thought you were going on a date.
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Keep my husband and myself so that he felt to blame yourself and only yourself in all family issues.
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And, of course, deny my husband intimacy.
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Nothing helps? You are all ready and determined to oust the husband? Collect his belongings and set on a pad (only notify the husband or his friends). Change the locks and walk away. Or even go to rest.
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Before proceeding to our recommendations, consider whether you want to break up with her husband? Analyze the situation, you will not regret if you then that kicked him out? You are sure that it will be better? If there's no other way, act confidently and decisively expel the hated husband.
Advice 4: How to throw a man
A guest in the house was always considered a good sign, bringing happiness and well-being. Unfortunately, not all guests are equally welcome and nice owners. Sometimes a situation may arise when you have to expel former spouse or friend of a personwho abuse your hospitality.
Instruction
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Some couples after divorce continue to live together. In that case, if the apartment is privatized and was acquired before marriage, to expel the man who is your ex-husband is not difficult. File a claim in court, to it attach a certificate of your right of ownership of the apartment and a divorce certificate. The court's decision will be in your favor, you will only have to present it to the former spouse.
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If even after the court ruled on the eviction, the person does not want to leave, have to apply measures of influence. Wait until he gets out of the apartment about their business, and change the lock. Collect his things in a suitcase and set out the door. When you try unwelcome guest to enter the apartment, call the police. Present a police certificate of divorce and a judgment of eviction. Prepare a statement to police that the court order your former spouse to them is not performed. Typically, this measure is effective.
3
Polite and considerate people seems impossible to kick the annoying friend who can come to the house uninvited. Realize that it is disrespectful to the owners, who are forced to change their plans and entertain guest. In this case, act firmly and decisively – if the person does not understand such elementary things, you will have to explain to him the unacceptability of such behavior. Tell me directly what you have to ask him to leave your home because you are not inclined to accept it, don't make excuses and does not refer to employment.
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Kicking someone annoyingly trying to call you for a talk, as do members of certain religious sects, Treponema in the front door of the apartments, you can without any hesitation. Opening the door and seeing such a delegation, just say, "Thank you and goodbye!", close the door. This way you do not hurt anyone and will save their time by avoiding tedious conversations and religious appeals.
Useful advice
Learn to protect yourself, your personal space and your family. It is better to act decisively and to expel the person unpleasant to you or someone, you are more inclined to communicate than to endure and suffer, feeling sorry for him. Your politeness and delicacy of annoying people will be perceived as weakness.
Advice 5: What if the husband loves another, but does not go away?
Men cheat on their wives for various reasons: because of the desire to feel "young", variety, adrenaline. If it's not a fleeting relationship, but a long-term relationship with a mistress to conceal them difficult. Not always a traitor leaves the family for another woman, and then my wife has to think what to do, if the husband loves another, but does not go away.
As a rule, the betrayer is in full confidence that he has the situation under control. Trying to hide from the wife, the mistress, and the lady on the side says that the house problems and now is not the time for divorce.
When a cheating husband does not want to go to his mistress, the woman herself can decide the fate of the family.
It's hard to be with her husband, when he could love another, but sometimes feelings change. In this case, you need to make an effort to convince my husband to stay in the family. Don't need this evening to say, first prepare the soil.
Think about your relationship and try to understand the reasons for his infidelities. Just so a man will not go to treason, so he doesn't like something or not enough in the family. Reasons for which you may have a neglected appearance, bad temper, problems in intimate life, poor housekeeping etc.
Try to do everything to make him comfortable at home. Create a home where the woman faded into the background. After a week of a good relationship you can move on to talking about the future.
Discuss the situation. Do not use blackmail, threats to not go to the Creek and continuous accusations. Tell him that you know about his mistress, and I understand that she came because of problems in the family. Offer to work together on the relationship and keep the family together. Discuss the situation so that in the end it was clear – either you or the mistress, but do not place directly an ultimatum.
But if you don't want to live with a traitor, you need to break up with him. It must be done without unnecessary scandals and squabbles. But only if you are confident of his infidelity and his decision.
Reassured, it is possible to consider how you will tell him about the breakup. Every action must be calculated. Most likely, the husband will deny your infidelity, will accuse you, so it's best to have evidence or iron stance.
After the conversation say that you don't want to live with a traitor. If your apartment, you can pre-gather his things and put near the door. But from a shared apartment to kick him will not be so easy, although you can offer him to go to sleep to his mistress.
When a cheating husband does not want to go to his mistress, the woman herself can decide the fate of the family.
Try to keep a man
It's hard to be with her husband, when he could love another, but sometimes feelings change. In this case, you need to make an effort to convince my husband to stay in the family. Don't need this evening to say, first prepare the soil.
Think about your relationship and try to understand the reasons for his infidelities. Just so a man will not go to treason, so he doesn't like something or not enough in the family. Reasons for which you may have a neglected appearance, bad temper, problems in intimate life, poor housekeeping etc.
Treason to blame, as a rule, both spouses. But in your power to work on your mistakes.
Try to do everything to make him comfortable at home. Create a home where the woman faded into the background. After a week of a good relationship you can move on to talking about the future.
Discuss the situation. Do not use blackmail, threats to not go to the Creek and continuous accusations. Tell him that you know about his mistress, and I understand that she came because of problems in the family. Offer to work together on the relationship and keep the family together. Discuss the situation so that in the end it was clear – either you or the mistress, but do not place directly an ultimatum.
Parting
But if you don't want to live with a traitor, you need to break up with him. It must be done without unnecessary scandals and squabbles. But only if you are confident of his infidelity and his decision.
Take a break not to do anything stupid on emotions. Consider the situation and make the final decision, because after he left, your life will change.
Reassured, it is possible to consider how you will tell him about the breakup. Every action must be calculated. Most likely, the husband will deny your infidelity, will accuse you, so it's best to have evidence or iron stance.
After the conversation say that you don't want to live with a traitor. If your apartment, you can pre-gather his things and put near the door. But from a shared apartment to kick him will not be so easy, although you can offer him to go to sleep to his mistress.
Advice 6: How to lose 20 kg per month at home
The human desire to be beautiful is not dependent on sex and age. Almost all the inhabitants of the planet want to possess a perfect figure. Good for those who has it. But what if the proportions are far from perfect? The slight extra weight can be hidden under clothing. But people who have a body mass much higher common, this is far from easy. That is why many seek to find the answer to the burning question: "How to lose 20 pounds in a month at home?"
To get rid of the extra 20 pounds, you need to reconsider basic provisions of their own routine and diet, to limit the total amount of daily food intake. The greatest amount of food should be eaten during Breakfast, slightly smaller lunch, and dinner - very small portion allotted for data day products. It is necessary to limit salt intake (it is the main culprit of the swelling and fluid retention in the body). Food should be not only tasty, but also useful - with the maximum quantity of products of plant origin.
Lose weight in a month by 20 pounds really, but it will take certain sacrifices in the form of a waiver of Goodies. From the diet should completely eliminate fried potatoes, macaroni and flour products, smoked products, bacon, ketchup and mayonnaise. Meat is possible, but it is important to give preference to low-fat varieties. Meat dishes are best baked in the oven, cook in a double boiler (a pressure cooker) or simmer.
In the process of losing weight is completely off limits is alcohol, it is also important to stop Smoking.
For an effective fight against fat, otsloivshiesya where it should not be, it is important to drink daily 2-3 liters of water. Such a drinking regimen helps to eliminate toxins and normalizes metabolism, and is essential for quick weight loss.
If your dream is to lose 20 pounds in a month, you must keep accurate calorie count. Remember that for women with minimal physical activity, and sedentary work daily ration is 1200 calories for men – 2500. If for some reason you have gone beyond these numbers, to expel from the body of excess calories will allow doing the hard work or active exercise.
Pay special attention to physical activity. Can go from work to work on foot? Do this daily, if weather conditions permit, and the air is not polluted by the exhaust of cars. Sports – the most effective method of fighting fat. Write a program for the implementation of pre-selected exercises and start training. In the course of exercise consumed calories from the body leaving the water in the form of sweat and waste products in the form of a salt discharge. All this contributes to rapid and efficient separation with 20 extra pounds.