Time to conquer the big world
It seems recently the baby was born, learned to walk, to talk, to dress themselves. And now it's time to send him to kindergarten, because he was 2.5-3 years. Of course, by this time the young mother is already very hungry for work, she wants to return to his life in society again daily to do makeup, styling, beautifully dressed. And the little one soon to give to the kindergarten.
And it is quite normal. Only a small number of modern women are satisfied with the role of Housewives. With daily washings, glazkami, air conditioning and other attributes of the "master's" life. In the end, it is his Holy duty, so to speak social and civic duty fulfilled. Had the baby, raised him up to a certain age. Kindergarten awaits!
Prepare kid for kindergarten
Now it's time to gently introduce the baby to society, to introduce and to teach him how to live and interact with the team. Show that in addition to mothers, grandmothers and children's play area is another world. And it is sometimes difficult, sometimes incomprehensible and sometimes cruel. But it is necessary to learn to live, make friends, enjoy the little things, to listen to the teachers, despite the fact that the mother will not be around at the right moment for it can not hide. Will have to make their own decisions.
Before sending children to garden, begin mentally to prepare. Every day explaining to him what he is going to do, call in his fancy pictures. Tell me about the garden only good, but it emphasizes that the mother is not with him but at work, instead of it, teachers and kids. Not all children are ready for kindergarten when the time comes. There is such a thing – "nasadowski child." This requires a longer adaptation. But to avoid such problems, it is necessary to initially think about how to behave with the baby and properly socialized with their peers.
How to get on the waiting list in kindergarten?
About the first few months after birth, please visit the Department of education by place of residence and put the baby on the turn in preschool educational institution. Not to stand kilometer queue created by electronic service on a special portal, you can fill out an application to make their data, series and number of documents and to control their position in the queue.
Before that, of course, need to choose a pre-school in which you would like to give your baby. You can select multiple gardens. Consider your location at the time when the baby comes it's time to go to kindergarten, suddenly you will overeat. This is especially true for tenants. If in your area a few gardens, just in case stand on the queue at all.
There is no space – what to do?
And finally, it's time! Within the specified period you come to the office of education, as you say – there is no space. Your indignation is no limit! You are already all planned out, waiting for me, you tuned in to the changes in life. What should I do? Where to complain?
Calm down and don't break the wood, not roll up scandals, this way you will not achieve anything. In disputes with state institutions need a sober mind and a cool head. To begin, try to find out from the employee why there is no place, and ask you what to do to the place still appeared.
Generally ask a lot of the right questions. The key word is correct. That is, the purposeful and open that doesn't involve one-word answer. Put yourself in the place of that officer. What person you would like to help? What pours insults and hysteria and open, but confused, really in need of assistance.
Well, if you had a real concrete, which, as they say, will not catch: the questions are answered evasively, and in one word, to soften not obtained, and do not humiliate. With a sense of self-esteem, go to the boss or any superior officer. There try to draw attention to themselves, all as cold and calculating. Just like a tank – go straight to your goal, you need to get a place in kindergarten.
In parallel find out the real situation in kindergarten, go to the head. Perhaps the trick by offering to help her institution, find out whether there is space in kindergarten. After gathering all the information, write a complaint everywhere: in education, in administration, everywhere can and must help to understand. Knock and you will open.
There is an option to appeal to the Deputy in their place of residence (these are available in every district of any city). And also to ask him to help. This, of course, also a lottery, but sometimes works. Remember that in any case, your statement must answer. It's the law, your rights as a citizen of his country, and you need them to know and understand. Under the rolling stone gathers no moss. So, go for it! Write, call, just samuchaya their questions.
Finally, another tip is to walk often all in the same Department of education. It often happens that the queue is updated once zeroed, because of the movement, drop-out children in the gardens. Perhaps in that garden on which you are applying, itself available place.
