The change of style and image
Unfortunately, life is not fair. Often people with bright, beautiful appearance more chances to achieve career heights and success in their personal lives than those whom nature has endowed not so much. Not by chance in certain professions, especially show business, appearance is the hallmark of man. And, if we are to change the world fails, is to start with yourself and make some effort to become more vivid.
The easiest way to make your look brighter is to find a professional stylist who would have picked up you a new image, from hair and makeup to wardrobe. Similar transformations are occurring daily on the First channel in the program "Fashionable sentence" where it is taken for true professionals, then the heroines of gear literally do not know.
If you are not able to hire a stylist, start with the basics – change your hairstyle or hair color. Consult with a master. Certainly, it will help to determine the choice.
You can also add bright accessories to your wardrobe – let it be a small part of the image, for example, a colorful silk scarf or belt, elegant brooch, beautiful jewelry. Gradually, you will like this game, you will choose a more bright things, instead of the classic black, white or beige palette. And soon, you will probably begin to notice a positive internal changes sets you up for a more positive way.
First you can try to master the skills of self-presentation. Create the image in my head of that "bright and successful I am." Think about what habits this man has, what kind of lifestyle is, what he likes and what not, how he dresses, where he works and so on. And try every day to get closer to that image. In addition, learn how to present yourself: watch the speech, gestures, gait and so on.
It is important to work on confidence. Still, people with low self-esteem difficult to achieve something, even having a very attractive appearance. Confident in yourself people literally attracts others and looks very impressive: as a rule, he's well spoken, straightened his shoulders, easy gait. He's not afraid to be visible and to Express their opinion.
And never forget to smile sincerely. After all, so your face is literally starting to exude positive emotion in itself becomes brighter and more attractive, regardless of what appearance you have.
Advice 2: How to make a self-presentation
When you need to get a job or to talk about themselves in the company of strangers - this will help the video. Presentation art teaches the science of rhetoric. Famous speakers throughout history have studied this for years and have developed a few simple rules, observing that you can prepare a great self-presentation.
You will need
- the rules of rhetoric,prepared speech, body language
Of course, it is possible to speak without preparation, but you need to be a genius of oratory. Therefore it is better to jot down the text of the presentation in advance and remember its main points (but not memorize). The test must consist of three parts - an interesting and bright greeting, the main part where you talk about your achievements and memorable conclusion.
Take the time to assess how sound Your speech. Put it on a tape recorder or computer, and listen to what intonations You are missing. For example, in order to make the interviewee feel your confidence, use perfect verbs - made, prepared, received, etc.
It is important to clearly know for whom You are making a self-presentation. You should be as customized to Your audience and be prepared to answer the most provocative questions. Even if that audience is one person, for example, Your future boss.
There is a great importance of body language. Need to watch his body language during the presentation. They should be as open as possible.
According to American researchers Tedeshi and Ries, there are five ways of self-presentation: it's trying to appeal to, self-promotion, intimidation, demonstration of spiritual superiority and a demonstration of their own weakness.
80% of success of your speech depends on body language and proper tone.