Do men need compliments?
It's all in the perception, women are used to compliments, for them it is just a pleasant, meaningless words, men perceive the compliment as a motivation for action. In addition to spoken compliment a kind of gingerbread work and can reinforce any positive habits.
Compliments the stronger sex necessary as air. But not worth it to them to overdo it, otherwise praise a man can begin to look at others haughtily. Well, or suspect you of insincerity. And particularly paranoid men can perceive the abundance of compliments as a sign of infidelity. Yes, here's a male thing. A good compliment should be fairly thin.
Basic phrases
"How do you like this (beautiful, smart, caring) come from?"
Ask this question often. A sincere interest in his person no man can leave without a response. So, you can hear detailed or humorous answer to this question. Men love to talk about themselves, but pride would not allow them to do this for no reason.
"Tell me how to do something."
This request will show the man that you consider him competent in any matter. This will make even the most modest man to have a sense of pride. And you, asking for advice, can further explain why it appealed to him. Do not forget to mention the complexity of the case, as well as significant experience with men in solving the problems. Just don't ask for advice about nonsense, it may be unnecessary coquetry, as a man may be offended.
"You have such a beautiful cardigan (tie, car, briefcase)!"
Admire that is dear to your man. The rapture things will make passing a few compliments, to compliment the taste of the man or admire his sense of proportion. Just don't do it too often, as in this case, a series of compliments can sound fake.
But never compare your man with the former. This can lead to serious problems.
"You're perfect!"
Compare your man with those who are dear to you. Almost any man would melt from positive comparisons with your father, especially if you emphasize what virtues are inherent to your father, and man. Do not skimp on the compliments with a double bottom.
If the arguments to explain to the man why you love flowers or white chocolate, it is likely that he will give you flowers and chocolates more than once a year.
Men do not like criticism, but if you put it in the form of a compliment, to sweeten the pot, we can achieve great progress. Never make compliments with "but". For example, "you're so good that I washed the dishes, but somehow forgot about a pot on the stove". Tell me "I washed the pot that was on the stove, but you saved me from having to wash the remaining dishes." This rule, incidentally, applies not only compliments the man she loved. If in this way to formulate ideas when dealing with the rest of the world, the effect is stunning.
