Drawing the perfect image of a girl, many men fall in love with those this ideal does not always match. It seems to be love there, but at the same time, there is a complex regarding the fact that the girlfriend laughed at him. What to do the poor girl in this situation?
Problem with external parameters
The most common cause of male complexes concerning the appearance of his girlfriend. For friends he needs a slim model, parents are exploring the model of chastity. If a girl these parameters, 100% corresponds to men appears the shame of it.
In this situation, you need to understand how the relationship is with a man in order for them to change – to get rid of a couple extra pounds, remove a piercing or tattoo, to change the style of dress. Perhaps the game is worth the candle, and the relationship after the change of the image will be perfect. And suddenly it turns out that there are more flaws and will have to live, constantly adapting to someone else's opinion?
The behavior of the people
Excessive modesty or the inability to hold back and keep silent at the right moment. This is another reason for the complexes. A man has been reared by the same rules, his choice – on the other. The character of each is different, as the rules of etiquette.
Again, you need to look at ourselves, to understand whether the comments reasonable and it's a reason to work on them or is it just nitpicking. In this case, you can seek the assistance of relatives and friends, openly asking for what in your behavior and it seems unacceptable and inappropriate.
Problems of childhood
The man criticized in childhood by their parents, will not only shy girl, leaving her lost in the riddles, he will constantly poke shortcomings in the nose. Children's complexes break out and find the target in the form of a girl that criticism is pouring in an endless stream.
Children's problems – a complicated concept. Most likely, they will last a lifetime, and so you'll be fat, ugly, not able to dress, act – the list is endless. Do you want to become a victim of other people's complexes, additionally accumulating them in yourself? It may be better to find someone with the same lack of will to see 1000 merits, and not Vice versa?
Deciding whether to stay with a man that you are shy, or find happiness with others, you need to think only about themselves and their well-being. What you prefer is admiration or permanent shame for the discrepancy between someone else's ideal?
