Advice 1: How to talk with the Director

The frequency of communication of the employee with the first face of the company depends on what place in the hierarchy it occupies. For some, it regularly, for others in exceptional cases. Even if conversation has become a challenge in the office, that is no reason to forget about self-esteem. At the same time, if the Director is wrong, to defend their point of view should politely but firmly.
How to talk with the Director
You will need
  • - knowledge of the etiquette and rules of politeness;
  • - a sense of self dignity.
Instruction
1
Whatever the reason for communication, one should not forget that the Director is the same person as any other. And ask you may not more than that stipulated in the terms of your responsibilities, corporate standards and applicable law. Latest corporate culture may contradict and indicate the priority in this case for the law.
2
If the initiator of the meeting - you try to briefly but succinctly explain the essence of the question, it is possible, in your opinion, solutions to problems, if we are talking about her proposals and arguments in their support.
Otherwise, assume that should be the boss of you. Clearly, briefly and succinctly answer questions, be prepared to make proposals, make necessary refinements and adjustments.
Never forget that time Director of the limited, he has many important tasks that require his participation, he thinks on the job in the first place, and their subordinates, starting as a cleaner and finishing with his right hand, waiting for the same.
3
How to appeal to the boss, depends on your company standard. Even if it's practiced dealing with the management of "you" (but "you" more often), the first time to treat "you" to a unfamiliar person more than not ever, and to go to "you" at any time, especially if it offered itself the other side.
4
In any case, appropriate observance of the norms of courtesy on your part and demand the same from the interlocutor. You have nothing to fear: those who can, if necessary, show the teeth (but don't abuse this skill), respect in the soul of even the most rabid louts. In an extreme case, the best solution will be to find another company with more sane Director.

Advice 2: How to learn to speak

Competent speech will be a great recommendation in many situations: during examinations and employment, in private conversation and public speech. On the contrary, a poor vocabulary and inability to accurately present information can fail you at an inopportune moment.
How to learn to speak
Instruction
1
To master the correct oral speech, read more good literature – not a modern ladies ' novels and detective stories, the authors themselves often at odds with the Russian language, and the classics – at least those authors that is taught in school.
2
Learn to retell favourite books and films, presenting them in detail or giving the gist. Watch the reaction of the audience if they are bored and asking questions is not the topic of conversation, so you can't pass on their impressions of the work. Think about why this happens: perhaps you are abusing personal pronouns, so that the interlocutors are no longer able to understand who these many "he", "she" and "they."
3
Get rid of unnecessary words, i.e. those which do not add anything to the meaning of the text and do not carry separate information. A typical example of the use of unnecessary words: "Not the month of may" (may is not may be the year, hour or minute), "to lift up", "back", "minute", etc.
4
Avoid tautology – the repetition of cognate or kindred meaning of words: "oil oil", "ask a question". For practice, analyze the speech of their interlocutors, politicians, anchormen and comedians. Consider what mistakes they make and how can I replace a failed word combinations. Then it would be easier to monitor their own speech and the right to build proposals.
5
Bear a grudge in his speech word-parasites and interjections-bundles. Verbal garbage like "type", "like", "well, it" makes it unconvincing and unimpressive. These ligaments and interjections required if the speaker is hard to find in his vocabulary a word that accurately expressed his thoughts and feelings. One way out: to study the dictionary of synonyms, to make your voice was not languid, verbose and inexpressive.
6
Don't use words whose meaning you do not know. Otherwise you risk to become like the grandfather Shchukar, who believed that "curb" is a girl of easy virtue, and "lampshade" in contrast, a good girl. Explanatory dictionary of the Russian language and dictionary of foreign words will help you expand your vocabulary. Pay attention to the accents in words.
7
Think about the appropriateness of the use of professional or youth slang. At work or in the company of friends you understand, but in formal speech or in conversation with people from other social groups, these expressions can be unsuccessful.
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