Advice 1: How to check on a lie

Lie — consciously expressed by the liar assertion contrary to the truth. The main emotional causes of deception – fear, shame, excitement, guilt. Although even professional psychologists are not always able to determine whether a person is lying, there are similarities that can recognize deception.
How to check on a lie
Instruction
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The most reliable and obvious signs of the lie for a long time it was thought the lack of eye contact and nervous movements, fidgeting on the chair. But the converse, looking in the eyes of the person, adopted among Europeans, and representatives of the Eastern civilizations perceive such behavior as aggression and disrespect. And nervousness can be caused by other reasons: for example, your interlocutor has to explain to you why the recent conflict, though he is late for an important meeting.
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Ask a distracting question, not directly related to the interlocutor's speech. Usually a long time before the answer means that you switch from lies to the truth. However, keep in mind, and the temperament of the other person – phlegmatic, for example, generally speak slowly, leave long pauses between phrases and long words..
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Ask a question for which you think people are lying, in such a way that the answer was an unequivocal Yes or no. If the person starts to equivocate, repeat the question until you get an answer.
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The absence of gestures. A lie requires great mental effort, the result does not remain forces on illustrating words with movements. However, if man by nature is almost no motion, this factor is unlikely to help.
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Compare human behavior with everyday. A liar will give themselves excessive or insufficient emotional, overt or covert.
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Threaten punishment for lying. No need to appeal to the conscience and religious fear. The punishment should be absolutely close and inevitable dismissal, reduction in salary or position, breakup, etc. If the rate is too high for the liar, he'll give up.

Advice 2: How to spot a lie in the eyes

In the famous proverb "the eyes are the mirror of the soul" has a profound meaning. For eyes you can learn a lot about a person. Movement of the eyelids, eyeballs, eyebrows, tilt of the head say about a person and his emotions more than words.
How to spot a lie in the eyes
Instruction
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Knowing some secrets in the eyes , you can determine sincere with you or not. It has long been observed that if a person feels guilty, then lowers them down (sometimes down and to the side). To know what your partner feels, it is enough to compare the eyes with the context of the conversation.
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Psychologists believe that the "fixed eyes" can be a sign of lying. If you asked the interviewee could not remember anything, and he, not taking his eyes continued to look directly into your eyes or at you, it is one of the signs of insincerity of man. If he, without hesitation, answers the question – there is a suspicion of his hypocrisy.
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This characteristic mainly concerns responses to unexpected questions, or a request to remember the old events. If the person talks about what happened to him ten or fifteen minutes ago, or reports important information (your phone number, address), the sign of the "quiet eye" here is not triggered.
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Another sign of a possible lie "quick diversion". If your interlocutor during the story or answer the question looks at you suddenly and quickly takes a side glance and then just as quickly returns to you, chances are that he was trying to hide.
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When in the course of the conversation, openly and directly looking at you and when reflecting upon the subject began to avoid the look – it can also talk about lying and trying to hide something. But we must not forget that some insecure people often during a conversation, feel uncomfortable and this avoid the opinion, which is not indicative of their insincerity. Also it is quite possible that your friend just unpleasant topic.
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Pay attention to the pupils of the interlocutor. People can't control their pupils. If the answer to the question have you noticed that the interlocutor eyes narrowed or widened, it should bring into suspicion that you are not sincere to the end.
Note
We should not jump to conclusions at the sight of one of the signs. Be sure to map the context of the conversation and situation with the listed characteristics. If you focus only on them, you can make a mistake and the blame lies an honest man.
Useful advice
If the person looks away down and to the right is one of the signs of lying, but if he looks away down and to the left – he can just find the right words.

Advice 3: How to check whether the changes you wife

Women are different from men that know how to hide their infidelity much better. The man often comes in small things – lipstick, little lies or inconsistencies in dates. Women are more attentive to details and to understand whether the changes you wife, is not so simple.
How to check whether the changes you wife
You will need
  • You will need a lot of patience, observation and desire to understand the true causes of her actions.
Instruction
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Analyze your feelings. How would you characterize this period. Cooling, stability, passion, affection, romance, - which of these descriptions fit you best? The indirect cause of female infidelity can be cold to cool you.
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Find out if she found his ideal. Sometimes even after marriage, women dream about the star or the Bob of the parallel groups. Does it have nostalgic feelings for former lovers? Does she believe that you will be together until death, or thinks he can find someone else? Women who are prone to cheating, included "search behavior". Still interested in cute strangers and prospective friends girlfriends.
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Watch how she treats time. If a woman started an affair, changing her relationship to commitments and meetings. It usually begins to stay late at work to spend the night with friends, to forget about joint plans.
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Remember how she responds to phone calls. If she stopped taking the phone calls from a certain number in your presence, she might call someone whose existence she wants to hide from you. In addition, the wrong wife , and she doesn't always pick up when you call her. Of course, this quality may be inherent to some ladies. But in times of change it usually escalates.
Note
Disorder of the sexual life may not mean the presence of the infidelity of the wife. Women pushing for infidelity is lack of attention, lack of love and affection. Sex in this case is a Supplement to the new feelings that she can experience with another man.

Advice 4: How to recognize false gestures

A lie is a very common phenomenon. Almost all people lie almost daily. The reasons for cheating can be many: to "get away" with, or to benefit, there is also the false "benefit" or something to embellish. To recognize the truth you will help the detector body language.
Most people lie on the little things
Instruction
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The fact is that when people are lying, non-verbal signals of his body it immediately "issued. These signs manifest itself as nervousness or a protective gesture, or otherwise. The most noticeable symptom is severe sweating (perspiration on his forehead, sweaty hands) and fine tremor of the body, which can be transmitted and the speech (when a person responds in a trembling voice). These symptoms may point to the fear of possible disclosure of deception.
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Another sign of a lie blink a lot or "running" look. A liar is afraid that eyes "betray" him.
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When a person wants to hide a lie in an ostentatious sincerity, his "issue" overly sincere look, a raised eyebrow etc. are signs of "excessive" sincerity.
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To identify a liar is unnatural or "tight" smile, when a person tries to "squeeze" it, to create a favorable impression and deceive the vigilance of the interlocutor. But crooked smile, which may seem charming, gives a person prone to lying. This is especially true of people, the mouth of which is stretched to the right. This means that the person carefully controls his emotions and works to the public. Another sign of lying - twitching of the mouth.
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A sign that the interviewee tells a lie, is also the friction or rubbing of the nose tip or the ear lobe. Also, the liar can pull at your hair or hide your hands, not knowing what to do with.
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When a woman is lying, she begins to put himself in order: makeup, hair, etc. a Man usually corrects the laces, tie, collar, hours. Or people tricking you, can pretend to restore order. Thus he seems to be trying to hide the order their lies.
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Note also the position of the body of the interlocutor, which you want to check for falsity. A symptom of lying can be rocking the body back and forth, left and right. Or the source often changes the posture ("fidgeting" in the chair), or in case it "leads" back, as if he wants to move away and thus protect himself from you.
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Lips can also be a lie detector. For example, if a person licks his lips (which means they are dry) or teeth. Also signs of nervousness, indicating a lie - biting lips or nails, or frequent cough.
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On a possible lie can also tell the protective gestures of the person. For example, if he covers your mouth or throat, or fold the limbs - hands and feet.
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If your partner smokes, notice how often he "goes" while Smoking. Frequent "tightening" can be another sign of lying.
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To read body language, you will need powers of observation, analysis and intuition. In addition, you need to understand that you don't have any of these signs talking about the lie your partner. For example, a person can be simply shy or anxious, frequent blinking can be caused by nerve disease, and cough may occur from a simple sore throat etc. Another important point - "body language" gives people, who cannot lie, who lie from time to time and ashamed of his lies. A pathological liar devoid of conscience or just know how to lie to a person using sign language to "calculate" unrealistic. There are many cases when liars "fooled" even the most experienced employees.. let's say, special forces, and also cheated a device known as a "lie detector". In such cases, the liar can be identified by facial features with the help of physiognomy, and also on the aura - but that's a separate issue.

Advice 5: How to check the wife of allegiance

Family life is not always easy. Sometimes spouses move away from each other. Appears jealousy and distrust. Moreover, to suspect your mate of infidelity can not only women. Some men also want to be sure that their wife is completely loyal to them.
How to check the wife of allegiance
Instruction
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If something caused you to doubt the loyalty of your wife, first figure out what exactly. Perhaps she began to behave strangely. If the cause of your mental agony in her behavior, you really need to know how you true.
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Become more attentive. You should notice all the changes that occur in your own person. What kind of mood she came home from work? What time? She looked tired, as usual, or her emotions were running high for unknown reasons? Observe and analyse, compare her actions and mood of those that were before.
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If you notice that the wife is lying to you, even small things, every night, check her cell phone for messages or calls from a strange man. Naturally, such evidence immediately removed the cheats, but sooner or later they may forget about caution. Also visit social networks and check all the correspondence. Do it quietly, so as not increase her vigilance.
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My wife and spend more time. Arrange family picnics, trips to restaurant, movies, etc. So you not only will be closer and maybe you will understand that in vain idea favorite, but look how many she has free time. If she will look for a reason to go somewhere, she will often call "work", so your suspicion is justified.
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If you need to find out the truth in no time, you can install surveillance camera or bugs. This instrument can be so seamless that your spouse will never guess that she is under surveillance. However, you will need to spend money, so first make sure you want to go that far.
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If you have any good methods and, besides, are you sure that the wife won't allow one in the house, check on the lie detector. Over a certain amount you will be able to use this service, which is offered in many cities. But be prepared for the fact that you can greatly hurt your favorite.
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If you still want to stay unnoticed in his small investigation, independently take care of her. Be quiet and unobtrusive, view, where, and with whom she goes to when goes to work, or where she's going in the day, if she supposedly got a call from work.
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Most importantly – be prepared for the fact that you can open the hard truth. Decide for yourself whether you are ready for it, and only then begin to act. In addition, if the wife will find out your spying on them, and while she does not change, the relationship between you can be very bad. Unlikely normal person like lack of trust to the person.
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