Instruction
1
If the husband told you that out of the familybecause he loved another woman, do not try to persuade him to stay, do not humiliate, do not appeal to pity – this is a very serious mistake. If you can convince him that he would commit suicide as soon as he's out the door, maybe husband will stay this time, but it is unlikely that your life will be happy. He will not stop loving the woman, but will consider themselves a victim of their own generosity and your blackmail.
2
Accept his decision, agree with what each of you has the right to life. Perhaps another woman will make him happy, and then it would be wrong to interfere with his care. On the other hand, the decision to divorce can be a mistake, and the husband wants to get back to you. Then it will beg your indulgence and that you should listen to his excuses.
3
If you have children, do everything you can to make the divorce has touched them as little as possible. Explain to them that daddy loves them still, but will live in another place. Don't try to blackmail her husband by ban on meetings with the children – not the fact that he even wants to see them, while the new family does not end "honeymoon". If the husband loves children and wants to communicate with them, do not interrupt him, do not deprive children of contact with his father – the victim will be they.
4
Make sure that children are not affected financially. If the husband does not want to pay child support in full and intends to conceal the true amount of income you can apply to the court to set a fixed amount of alimony. Consult with a lawyer what steps can be taken in this case.
5
Don't let yourself become a victim of the great ruined love. You're not a victim, but the mistress of your own life. Upload useful or enjoyable activities to less time left for self-pity. Very well help sports – fitness, skiing, swimming, skating, Bicycle. Active rest in the fresh air helps produce hormones of joy – endorphins.
6
Perhaps you had a hobby that you gave up due to lack of time. Go back to your hobby and try to find like-minded people – positive communication will help you to get back to normal life.
7
Find people who are worse than you and help them. Divorce is not the greatest misfortune in life. Perhaps the situation in other families, you can convince, but active sympathy and assistance will help to distract from their own experiences.
8
Don't forget that her husband left her for another woman with all his faults and eccentricities, and therefore waiting for her unexpected discovery, when the honeymoon period of their relationship.