Often believe that home and school with the girls more trouble than boys. But more and more it appears that boys lack confidence, so they learn and behave worse than the more self-confident to their peers. Psychologists say that boys are no less in need of the proper education from childhood, which will be key to their success and happiness in the future.
Keep in mind that in preschool age boys to a greater extent is produced by the male hormone testosterone. Which makes them uncontrollable, sometimes aggressive and increases the likelihood that at school they will have some problems. So keep in mind that due to the influence of testosterone, your son may: pretend to be the Batman, Schwarzenegger, then just a tough guy from an action movie; think of dramatic plane crashes, trains and cars; to provide an outlet for accumulated energy, playing football, running a race or during a game to create unbearable noise and rumbling; become irritable, aggressive, overbearing. Think of the effect of hormones on the behavior of the son for granted, because during puberty the level of testosterone in his blood reaches a pretty significant concentration.
Remember that the emotional needs of boys much higher than girls. They are sharper fear of separation from parents has a stronger impact on them. They are more difficult than girls to Express their feelings. Most often it is boys required assistance in the development of such communication skills as communication, the ability to share, ability to argue without fighting. Unfortunately, instead of to fill the need of the son in the expression of feelings, parents, on the contrary, try to give his character this quality as much as possible. After all, he's the future man. Never do this. In any case, do not focus on active games, even if your son is not dealing with what, in your opinion, should engage the boys, and what he likes. You should not tease son a "wimp" or "sissy" when he cries expressing their feelings.
Please note that for a boy it is very important to spend enough time with his father, who from birth have to take an active part in the upbringing of his son. Baby will follow daddy all his actions, to adopt male behavior, and all that the father will speak, will affect his views and further development. Therefore, the joint holding of free evenings and weekends should be a standard practice.
Remember, in the early years boys increasingly intensified work of the right hemisphere of the brain. So your son will prefer the physical and practical classes. You may not be excited about catching beetles, dismemberment slippery worms or climbing trees. But despite the fact that you can be in constant expectation of accidents during the game, try to provide the child himself. This will allow it to expand its field of activity and horizons.
Advice 2 : What if the son of a drug addict
If the parents discovered the addiction of their child from drugs, then serious conversation, threats and requests would be of little use. Most likely, the addiction has already caused mental and physical dependence. So parents, it is crucial to refer to specialists for treatment of the child.
Addiction to drugs radically changes a person. Yesterday's quiet child becomes unruly, aggressive, irritable, short-tempered. He ceases to control his behavior and emotions, to realize the dire situation and consequences of their habit. The addict develops the illusion that at any moment he can get rid of their addiction.
Addiction requires mandatory timely intervention of treatment professionals to assign appropriate treatment. Parents of children who use drugs need to seek help at a drug treatment hospital. Complex, professional drug treatment is to prevent disastrous consequences from drug use on the body of the child to facilitate his condition and get rid of narcotic dependence.
Depending on the financial situation in the family, can be trusted with the treatment of the child commercial the clinic. As a rule, these hospitals are modern and effective methods of getting rid of the addiction. It is believed that private clinics can afford a higher quality of service and level of treatment in contrast to the state drug treatment centers. Commercial centers are taking a more intensive course of therapy, and therefore, the child's stay in a hospital is shorter than in the municipal narcological clinic. Also pay companies are more strict regime, which excludes the intake of drugs by patients during treatment.
Registration of narcological account
In some cases, treatment in drug treatment centers entails the statement on the narcological account. This circumstance suggests a restriction of some civil rights junkie. Registration of narcological account imposes a ban on engaging in certain types of employment, driving a car, you may also experience difficulties in obtaining various positive characteristics and references. Anonymous treatment at a drug treatment center can be an alternative option for registration.
Registration with drug records are prohibited without the consent of the parents of the minor child. It also may not be performed in cases of self-treatment for help when the patient has no serious mental disorders, as well as voluntary and expresses a sincere desire to get sober.
There are specialized social welfare and various non-profit organizations that provide psychological support and assistance to parents of children of drug addicts. In such societies, there is a possibility to receive consultation of experts, which will provide the necessary guidance and recommendations. Parents can share experiences and get tips from other families whose children suffer from addiction.