Instruction
1
You first need to change tactics and treat Chad grew up not like a child, and already an adult. Unfair dominirovaniya position in relations to his son. He's also already quite large, able to live independently and that as it sees fit. Thus, understanding adult son will become possible only when the parent will be his friend and the relationship will be equal.
2
Do not forget about respect. Grown son has every right to make their own decisions, even if his mom and dad with such judgement do not agree. Whatever it was, it was his opinion that you need to take. The best thing parents can do is give good advice, to Express their point of view. And to listen to it or act on its own, will solve the child.
3
It is advisable to avoid selfishness, as it often interferes with relationship building. Parents should not only act in their own interests, to think only about themselves. They should also take into account the interests of his son, because he is an individual. You should imagine yourself in the place of the child, to look at what is happening through his eyes. Then much can be understood.
4
Many young people are able to perceive the words of parents "hostility". So it didn't happen, it is important to try to talk anymore with a grown son, concerned with his public and personal life, to solve problems. If you follow this attitude, many conflicts and misunderstandings can be avoided.
5
Never, under any circumstances, to yell at my adult son. This will only exacerbate the situation and further alienate the native people to each other. Parents should be sensitive and wise, able to understand and lend a helping hand to your child when it is really necessary. Because being an adult is not easy.