Instruction
1
Be friend your child and his good friends. Build a relationship of trust, let the son to invite his friends home, chat with them, going together to movies, concerts, etc. It to a good friends whom your son loves and appreciates you can turn to for help. Often young people and especially Teens are much more willing to share their problems with peers than with parents, so try to influence her son through others.
2
Find your child a job that he really likes. Try to load it so that the time for foolishness he was left with. For example, if your son is a childhood dream to take up Boxing, put it in the sports section. If he likes to collect anything, help to create a luxurious collection. He wants to learn to skate? Buy everything you need. Create suitable conditions for the pursuit of Hobbies, and the child will have neither the time nor the desire to contact with bad company.
3
Do not cry, do not make the scandals and certainly not raise a hand against the son. His new friends will already have begun to turn him against you, and similar actions you only will strengthen their credibility. Moreover, the son may even run away from home, and then to restore a relationship of trust with him will too hard. On the contrary, talk calmly and don't lecture. You must convince the child that you understand him and want to help, not forced to do anything by force. And remember: no threats or ultimatums, just a calm, sincere conversation!
4
Tell your son about his feelings, in any case, not reproaching him at the same time. Tell you how unpleasant the situation, it hurts you know that such a smart man has lost his way. It is very important not to talk bad about the new friends your son and certainly not to insult and humiliate them, otherwise you'll just encourage the child against himself. Ask to understand you and listen to your words, but not order.
