First of all, strongly banish doubt, saying, and whether it is possible to resort to trickery in a conjugal relationship, if that? Nothing bad is not here. You can't cheat my husband, moreover, do not change it. You want a family friendly atmosphere, there was mutual understanding, respect to each other. And in this case very much depends on the woman. It is no accident that different people in the world there are Proverbs such as: "Clever wife husband mistress", "Husband – head wife – neck."
Remember: any male, including delicate and fragile, can not stand when a woman tries to command them, especially emphatically and categorically. You – not the army chief, and your home is not a barracks. Learn how to succeed with female gentleness, as befits the weaker sex.
For example, you rightly believe that the husband would help around the house, instead of lying on the couch watching TV. In the end, you, too, came home from work. In any case, do not throw an angry tone: "is it Really so hard to understand that I'm tired? Come on, get up, help!" Phrase: "Honey, could you help me?" would be more appropriate. And husband must be willing to respond to your call.
And if a husband and wife different points of view how to act in a particular case? Even if you are absolutely sure of the correctness (suppose better versed in this issue), it is not necessary to go to the goal ahead. What do you think would get the unforgettable Fox cheese from the Crow, if resorted to shouting, threats, even tears? Here's what it is. Achieve the objective of prudent cunning. A little flatter to her husband: "You're so smart, surely you know how to do that!" And when he will "soften", is delicately and skillfully position it on the desired thought.
Ways lot. At a minimum desire and fantasies the wife gets her way, and her husband is sincerely convinced that he wanted to. And all will be well!
Advice 2: How to be a wise wife
The woman is the homemaker, and it is often of its wisdom depends on the success of the marriage. It is important to understand that each family has its own laws that define those or other subtleties of behavior. However, it is possible to identify the main features of the image of a wise wife and even give General recommendations to improve relations in marriage.
Support your husband as much, help him in his work. He should know that you will always be with him no matter what. Do not cut, do not make the scandals and condemn not, and if he made a mistake or failed. Dismissal, wage cuts, breakage of machines and other temporary difficulties we need to experience together.
Don't try to change your man, make him adjust to you. Better try yourself to share its principles, goals, aspirations, Hobbies, if that doesn't work, just have establish your family life. No need to adjust the characters and relationships, so learn to accept her husband for what he is.
Praise your husband, emphasize his dignity, be proud of them. Men often achieve success through a sincere love of his wife. Forget about flattery, it is better to talk about positive qualities that really has your husband. You can casually to emphasize his power and great physical shape when he dug up the flower bed at the cottage, or admire its erudition manifested in the dispute. Let your husband be your most smart, beautiful, interesting, the best man in the world.
Can't stand dirty linen in public. Never insult your husband in front of strangers and do not tell me about your quarrels with the relatives, friends and acquaintances. A wise wife knows how to make one of her family's troubles did not know. Note that talking about them is not have even with their parents, especially if they dislike your husband.
It is not necessary to comply with the consumer attitude of some men. The woman who always suffers, humiliated, submissive, silent, can easily turn your husband into a cheater or an alcoholic. A marriage without love, constant beatings, and insults pomicanje able to destroy the woman and destroy her charm. Loving husband, do not forget that you are either a person, or to build a happy marriage will be much harder.
Be beautiful and alluring, take care of yourself. Meet the husband as would meet an important guest, ie painted and exquisitely dressed. Discard old robes, and before bed, wear a sexy negligee. Make sure your appearance and always try to be attractive to her husband.