Instruction
1
Do not take this decision on emotions. After spent romantic evenings, when you feel nice and calm, it's easy to agree to live with a guy. But we need to look reality in the eye. A joint household is not romantic and the daily contact of two adults with their own habits.
2
Discuss how realistic is the embodiment of your desire. You need to deal with the place of residence, it is advisable that you lived separately from your parents. Specify the reasons preventing you to live together, and methods of their elimination.
3
Don't hide your doubt. Open communication will help you to identify potential problems and proactively take control of their decision. May you be strong in your resolve to live together or, on the contrary, you will understand that at this stage of the relationship make it impractical.
4
Be prepared to give. No matter how warm, gentle and extraordinary neither was your relationship during courtship, cohabitation can bring a lot of difficulties. So instead insist on their preferences, find a compromise, otherwise you will not be able to get along.
5
More details will discuss before moving. Living together will reveal a lot of unresolved points that need to be addressed. So don't put off talking about that is obvious and needs attention. Discuss your daily routine, weekend plans, food preferences and budget planning.
6
Do not deprive yourself of freedom. No matter how much people loved each other, they can't all the time to spend together. Particularly acute is the need for freedom can appear at the beginning of cohabitation, because when you lived your life, and now she's sharing. The relationship was stronger, you need to spend time apart. Make sure that you both understand this correctly.
7
Don't expect much. Difficulties and disagreements in the first phase after moving is normal, because each of you and your habits, as well as the thoughts you can't read, there will be differences. No need to hastily decide that you need to part and live the same life. Give yourself time to adapt to new circumstances.
