How to deal with men

Learn mutual respect. It should become the main principle on which keep your relationship. Regardless of which of you earns how much, who is talking to whom and who has what interests, you have to respect the man, and he needs to respect you.

Learn to compromise. Do not take the compromise as a loss. On the contrary, it should be a win for both sides. In any contentious issue don't be stubborn like a bull, and don't give in – it will breed a sense of resentment and injustice. Try to find such variant which would suit them both, each of you will go on some concessions, so in the end both sides were happy with the decision.

Learn to trust each other. Jealousy in certain doses is good, people feel needed and loved. But the constant harassment, nagging, resentment, jealousy to each moving object can only withdraw from yourself and nothing more. Partner must feel that he is trusted, because trust stems from respect. Stop constantly calling your man and ask where he is, with whom and when it will be home. As a rule, excessive jealousy leads to treachery.

Learn selfreliance. Of course, men are the stronger sex, and sometimes they don't want to admit that they need help from anyone, especially from women. However, this does not mean that he really doesn't need your help and support. You both must become each other's reliable support, the closest person, who at any moment ready to support. Just don't try to be too Intrusive with offers of assistance, because otherwise, the man may perceive it as a rebuke of his weakness.

Stop acting with a male as with a child. Never try to be a caring mother, who always reminds the man that he needed to do, how to act. Remember that you are his woman, not his mother. Stick to this rule, if you don't want your man really started behaving like a child.

Never play the victim. Yes, of course, you are a woman, you are weaker, but this does not mean that you need to constantly feel slighted in some way, to the man once again started to convince you.

Love the man for what he is, not for what it could be. Many women, falling in love, paint rosy images, and when they realize that the reality of these images is not the same, start trying to fit it under them. Of course, you one way or another change the man, and he changes you. But don't try to redo it for yourself, it is a sign of disrespect to what it is.