How to divert her husband from his mistress

If your spouse is fond of another woman, and you are not going to give up and let him go, try to analyze your family life. You have to understand that he was attracted to the woman and what you lack. Re-ignite the spark in your relationship, and you will be able to return a loved one in the family.

Instruction

1. If you have received unpleasant information about the presence of the mistress of your husband, you shouldn't get depressed and even more right to apply for divorce. Don't make fun of the other woman. It is likely, seeks exactly that. Perhaps even, she will intentionally create a situation where you will learn about the change. The more you can not arrange hysterics, scandals and a showdown in a raised voice. This is just more alienate your spouse from you, and to solve the problem this way will not work.
2. Think about whether or not to talk about your conjecture. If the man says that out of love and wants to get away from the family, so he either was just making meaningless affair or have not yet made a final decision. Telling him about your guesses, you can push it to the care of another family.
3. It is best in this situation to carry out work on the bugs in your relationship. Do not regret and don't justify yourself, because the man is "diverted" in that case, if it is something missing in the marital relationship.
4. If you have lost the passion, and the relations are smooth and dull, arrange for the spouse a romantic evening with candles, a delicious dinner, slow dance, etc. Remember what made you get so "hooked" that it was you he wanted to see his wife and try to regain.
5. Prove to him you're better than the woman he fell for it. Buy a stunning new dress, make an unusual hairstyle (change the color or length of hair) and go with friends in a cafe. But don't overdo it in the desire to force you spouse to get jealous. Don't cross the line, in order not to destroy the relationship. He just needs to understand that you are a beautiful woman alone will not remain that you are sexy and love to other men. Male owners, and he will surely look at you with different eyes and are afraid of losing.
6. Be tolerant. Surround it with even greater care and attention, often indulge your favorite dishes, be interested in things at work, to Express sympathy and support when needed. He needs to understand that no one will ever be able to understand and appreciate him like you.
7. Family (with children) vacation. You will be able at some time to pull out of this vicious circle: the wife, he, the mistress. He will have the opportunity to once again confirm that the only family he can be truly happy.