The first language of love is time. When a person loves someone (or something), he attaches to this all my free time.
Second gifts. The lover seeks to please his chosen one pleasant surprises, pretty trinkets, or expensive purchases.
Third – words of admiration, or simply compliments.
The fourth is expressed in care and concern.
The fifth language of love is touch.
Everything seems to be simple and clear. Why, then, between two people who love each other, there are hurt feelings and misunderstandings? Why people who marry for love and love each other, decide to break up?
Usually, when the lovers first met each other in the beginning of the relationship, they use all five languages of love: care, spend a lot of time together, make compliments, give gifts, touch each other.
Then begins a life together, a life, caring, have children and now, each spouse begins to show his love as was customary in his family, his parents. And it's not laziness and paucity of imagination, and the fact that one family decided to show their love that way, and in a different family – a completely different way. One used to love in silent concern, and the other is waiting for expensive gifts and endless streams of admiration. Love one – the language is different. The couple simply cease each other to hear and understand.
What can you do in this case? How to save a relationship and live in them happily ever after?
The wisest decision will be to learn the language of their choice and learn to use in relationships all five languages.
Of course, in order to allow two people began to hear and understand each other, for starters, you need to engage in dialogue. Relationships can be maintained and strengthened only if on this task will work both. That's when love will sparkle with all the colors and will give a lot of joy and pleasure. The Union of lovers speaking to each other in five different languages of love, any storm at all.