Advice 2 : First love – a sign of growing up
Teenage relationships boys and girls are sometimes very sensitive and touching, and not forgotten until the end of days. Even older people who are several times married and had many relationships subsequently, in his later years with fondness, admiration and a little sadness, I remember sneak their youthful tender feelings.
Teenage experiences, the most significant, sentimental and unpredictable. First love is not at all, but if the teenagers fall in love, they give their all to this mysterious feeling, forgetting everything and not thinking about any other issues. In this case, the role of parents is to exercise tact and understanding. And if, going on about their prejudices, indifference and selfishness, they will destroy the child's relationship, he will not forgive them ever, and moreover I hold a grudge against a parent for a lifetime.
Teenagers share their experiences with moms and dads is not always, even if between them there was full disclosure. First love is something very intimate, fragile, not known even by lovers. What wonder that the child doesn't want to talk with outsiders on the subject, when even words are sometimes not enough to Express the unknown, the frightening and unique that he feels.
But then people close to understand that their grown-up child going through a difficult period of teenage love, to time to time to help him advice and support? Even if a teenager has no desire to be Frank with the parents, his feelings like a child being asked out. Emotions, bristling over the edge, visible to the naked eye, and others are clearly visible changes in behavior of the teenager if you are attentive to him.