How to move from parents

For many parents, the idea that the kids move out and leave them incredibly heavy. And because they subconsciously affect the child, causing him to be tormented by conscience or trying to persuade to stay. So it is difficult for parents to understand that children have grown up, but because they will be much more useful and easier to live separately. Maybe the child gets tired of permanent guardianship, or, conversely, annoyed, not getting warm feelings and see only conflicts between family members. Moving from parents when you yourself feel ready for it. At the same time, no matter how you loved mom and dad, don't let them manipulate your desire and mood. You need to calmly and patiently to prepare the parents to the prospect of your move.

It is easiest to account for those young men and girls who are leaving to study in another city. First, they, of course, difficult to get used to the gap, because not everyone is ready for independent life at such a young age, but then you get used to and the students themselves and their parents. After studying the student has already mastered enough in the city to find jobs and housing and stay in it forever. Such a break with the parents is more relaxed than the simple desire of a young man to live separately.

If you feel that the time has come to live independently, parents prepare for this in advance. For starters, you can warn that you will go in a certain foreseeable future, without specifying when it will happen. When parents are a little used to the idea, tell us more about your plans. By the way, many parents may perceive your idea to go with enthusiasm, but not because you're tired. Parents understand how important it is for young people, the desire for independence and many are ready to support it. They only need a little time to get used to the idea of parting, and that is what the child should give his parent.

As a rule, parents are worried about how the child will live in a new place, with whom he will spend time, will not hurt him as it will be to earn a living and provide for themselves, would not starve. All of these issues to better educate parents before departure to reassure them. Of course, you have to understand that after the move you will not be able to ask adults money for food and rent, all have to pay for it. So you need to have a job that can cover the cost of rent, food, clothing and entertainment.

Also, you need to convince your parents that you are already independent enough to live separately. Try at home to cook, clean the apartment in time to go shopping. After all, in a new place all this will have to do yourself. So both the child and mom and dad know how much he is willing to lead independent lives and cope with it.

To move is to pick up a fully furnished apartment, which is comfortable located towards the centre and your work. Better to flat as possible were still not very far from the place of residence of the parents. They will let the child feel much more comfortable if they know that he lives nearby. In addition to moving my stuff in this apartment is much more convenient.

Before moving need to find a convenient box. Of course, you can collect things in bags or suitcases, but if the hand is not convenient and roomy bags, you can always ask the big boxes in supermarkets, bookstores, or furniture stores. These boxes are easy to carry, convenient to store all the necessary things without damaging them.

Do not take a lot of things. For the first time, you need to take just the basics: clothes, books, some kitchenware, bedding, towels. Anything can happen, for example, have to move to another apartment or live with roommates, then a lot of things will interfere.