You will need
- A sheet of paper.
Prepare the ground for the breakup in advance. Start to meet less often, less talk, let him know that the relationship was split. If the tear happens suddenly, it can be difficult to believe and accept. But if he will remember that in relationships there was a split, it will be easier to accept the fact of separation.
Of course, to announce the breakup better in person to show your respect for the partner. But if you find it difficult or uncomfortable to report such news in the eye, use the letter. But not as text message, because it fits a small number of characters. It is better to write a letter by hand or, in extreme cases, personal messages in social networks.
Think about the reasons that caused your breakup. If there is nothing offensive for a guy, you can specify them in the letter. But only if it's not about his appearance, material wealth or other personal problems. You can talk about your incompatibility, for example, if you want to have kids, and he's not ready for them.
Does not clarify the relationship and do not blame him in some way. The last letter should leave you a good impression, and do not raise old grievances, scandals and remember his failures.
Don't place hopes. The letter should clearly give to understand that it was over. If he still has faith in your future, young man will not be able to go further. So write what he thought about the situation and all is well weighed. You firmly believe that you have no future, and it would be best to leave now.
Wish us luck and happy personal life. Write what I sincerely wish him to find mutual love with another girl that will appreciate him, and they will be happy. Recall that it is not necessary to despair and be closed in itself.
Don't try to hurt the young man. No need to add the letter "I never loved you" or "you're terrible in bed". Sometimes there is a desire to Express everything accumulated over the years, but most often then comes regret about the act. It is better to write two letters: one to Express all your thoughts, and in the other remove the insults and taunts. Send the second option, and the first burn or tear.
If you have used social networks as a letter, put it in an envelope. You can print a letter on the computer, print it, and at the bottom to manually write your name. Leave a message in a conspicuous place, in order to be confident in delivery. Get uncomfortable if you are confident in your gap, and he did not get your message. Throw in the mailbox in the pocket of his coat or leave it on the Desk in his apartment.