You will need
- Common sense
- Attention to detail
Pay attention to his body language when he is near you. If he tries to casually touch your hand? Lee nervously licks his lips when he looks at you? Does it uses any excuse to touch you? Accompanies you, at parting, a look?
If he finds what is clearly flimsy pretext to call you, especially if these conversations last longer than any conversation prior to your separation, if he completes the conversation in a positive way, says. How nice it was to hear your voice is a good sign.
If he constantly finds some common to you if he says that you can be friends and still tries to spend a lot of time with you, it does not mean that he wants you back. On the one hand, he may indeed still love you, and the other may just enjoy what is still controlling your life.
Talk to your friends, ask if they contacted them your ex to talk about you? If he's not sure that you are ready to take it back, he can "test the waters" through them.
If almost all of your conversations are reduced to discussing your breakup, it could mean that your ex did not understand what and when went wrong that you are not indifferent to him, but he's too proud and arrogant to admit it.
Mention in conversation someone your ex knows. If he starts a lively interest in this man, to ask where and when you met, how you got there who else was there – that's a good sign, it means he still considers himself part of your life and he cares about what you do, and perhaps he's a little jealous.
If it makes you compliments, talking about how good you look, how he likes your smell as you go this haircut or blouse this is a clear tentative step towards reconciliation. It shows that finds you attractive that it is still physically "pulls" to you.
Sometimes there is no better way than to ask directly. What can you lose? If you already broke up and he's not coming back, it is better to know now than to entertain groundless hopes, looking for the slightest signs of sympathy. But if he regrets, is not it better to try to start all over again and not tormented by doubts?
Advice 2: How to understand that you don't like
Women trust their intuition. They can always sense when you love them and when the attitude towards them is different. Often, they don't want to believe that they could fall out of love. That's when they begin to doubt their intuition. Not to think and not to guess, fell out of love with the man or was it just some temporary difficulties, just watch his behavior.
If your lover suddenly had too much to do, do not jump to conclusions. He can do a lot of work. But remember, if he loves you, he'll at least call you 5 minutes to talk. If you ceased to see him, he calls you every few days, it is unlikely that he still has feelings for you. Most likely, he lost interest in you. He no longer feels the necessity in communicating with you.
When a person falls in love, he does not notice the downsides of its halves. Of all her faults, seemed to him the advantages or things that are not worth paying attention to. But if love comes in more recently, a loved one starts to annoy everyone. If he is irritated by your words, actions, deeds, it seems that you must change, then his feelings are gone. It may not suit your appearance? Then it all bad.
You'll notice if your partner will cease to be affectionate with you. He has less to give you a hug and kiss? The desire to make love to you occurs in it less? In bed, he looks like he's asleep? Accept the fact that his feelings have cooled.
If your boyfriend always got mad when you had the attentions of other men, and now he's not paying any attention to it, this is a serious reason to think that he loves you or not. Maybe he just started to have more trust in you, it is sure that you only pay attention to him. And maybe his love just died.
If you notice that your loved lately started to lie to you, he probably has a reason to lie. What if this other woman? When you have the chance, discreetly check his phone for calls and messages from unknown numbers. If possible, check his page in social networks. If it turns out that he had another, then he no longer loves you.
Be attentive to her man. Analyze his behavior, not forgetting to take into account his character. Some men aren't naturally gentle and mild in dealing with his ladies, despite the fact that feel for him true feelings. Or your favorite is just too overworked, and he needs to rest. Do not hurry to sever relations, not convinced their suspicions.
More talk with her boyfriend. So you will know what's on his mind. He may also think that your feelings for him fade away. Suddenly, because of this, he distanced himself from you. Be careful not to lose his love.