How to learn to manage people

Often we need to convince people that they have committed any specific actions, in other words, we need to manage them. This, of course, enough to have high social status or position, but in case you find yourself alone with someone equal to you, you need to convince him. Learn how to manage people only if you can convince a person equal to you.

How to learn to manage people
How to make him obey
How to learn to control yourself and your emotions
How not to allow themselves to be manipulated

Instruction

Listen to the person you need to convince of anything. Highlight the manner of his speaking and speak. His vocabulary, which he conveys to you is a priceless weapon against it, and accidentally dropped the word can be a very powerful argument in dispute, and in the belief.

Make adjustments - take the pose, the mirror, or like the pose of the source, and synchronize breathing or gestures with his breathing and gestures. This will help you subconsciously cause him resist your arguments, because on a subconscious level you will be copying it.

Identify his weaknesses and words-parasites, which can reveal his uncertainty about certain words. Use clarification in order to confuse your opponent while avoid direct confrontation on a personal level. The advantage is if your conversation is going to happen in public - the pressure of other people on your buddy will help you develop the situation in the wrong direction, which is convenient to you.

Useful advice

Do not use direct saying - nudge your man to realize the necessity of certain actions, because they are a priority for him.

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