A man can deceive with words, but his eyes were not deceived. If he loves you, it is reflected in his eyes. You just look him in the eyes and read in them love and tenderness. The only "but": we must not confuse loving the look with the look of a man who is experiencing a passion. Because passion (love) and love is not the same thing. The sight of a loving man warms you with its warmth, while the sight of a man in love a lot. His eyes glisten, as if to devour you. Love is heat, passion, fire. Therefore, passion (love) burns out quickly, leaving nothing but ash and pleasant memories. Even easier to identify by sight the man who is indifferent or cold to you. He avoids looking at you and the look you will find warmth and tenderness. Nothing but the cold.
According to difficult to determine, does your man really is. The fiery words of a man in love who is experiencing a passion, is easily mistaken for love. Therefore, women who believe only the words, often get burned. When a man says to his love, and says she can't live without you, he cannot be guilty of lying. Because he may be in love myself and to believe sincerely. Or just know how to speak beautifully. This is especially true of philanderers who know that "the woman loves ears." But if so, you will feel falsity. So you need to trust your feelings more than words. If you're talking about his love, but he remained silent, this is not necessarily a sign that he doesn't like you. Maybe he just doesn't know how to Express love words. But expresses love in actions and deed, care for you. Or he believes that to talk about love and show affection is a weakness. This is especially true of men-macho.
It tends to be more often with you and likes spending time together. Of course, this does not mean that he will cease to communicate with their friends. But he finds a reason to go somewhere together, and people trying to be near you. He likes your companionship, and your opinion is important to him. However, even in loving couples there are periods when they get tired of each other's company. Especially when they are locked in a narrow world of their relationship. So do not blame the man, that he devotes much time to the friends or hobby, or just want to be alone. You both must be some kind of personal space, this is the best way not to get tired from each other.
He cares about the people you love - parents, friends, and he tries to find common language with them. He introduces you to his friends. But even more sure sign that he loves you - if you are a divorced woman or a single mom, and he loves your child. Because the child is part of you. If he wants to meet up just the two of us, perceives child as a burden, pretends it doesn't exist, or he loses interest in you, learning about the child - it is a sure sign that he really likes.
He plans your future together. If he acts like you each by itself (just met and ran away) - this looks serious. Of course, if you are quite a long time. Although I must say, the family is not the only form of relationship. Sometimes he and she are Dating, not living together and living our lives. The question is, is this your preference and whether you do this in ten years. Separately can be said about marriage, when the woman - the mistress. If he promises to divorce and marry you but has not taken any steps, no need to deceive ourselves. He's comfortable in such a situation, you're wasting your time. As well as the opportunity to meet a man who will love you so much that you were the only one for him.
He loves you for who you are. Not much complex about small Breasts or excess weight, and admires your miniature figure or your curvaceous. In addition, loves you not only for looks, but also loves your character. Love to see you natural, without make-up, and when you Wake up with messy hair. (Just do not abuse this.)
You just feel that he loves you. If so, you don't need any words, and no other evidence. You just feel loved and don't doubt it. But, if that were true, you would not be reading this article, right?
So you can use a different method, based on intuition. Just ask him a direct question if he loves you. The main thing - not his answer, but how he behaves. Assigns it the look, if strained, drew the issue into a joke or grinning, as he honest, etc. However, this method has one drawback: men do not like this question. Them very annoying when a woman constantly asks "do you love me?" You can tell the women of their most annoying it. If you want to know the answer to your question, ask. But only one time.
To find out if he loves you by actions. Love has many definitions, because each person loves in their own way. But still, when a man loves, he cares, tenderness, support you and care for you. This is a more sure sign than words. "I want to know a person - look at his actions." The only "but": if not, don't blame the man, that he is not paying you attention. Moreover, you should not demand from the man some actions toward you. It's no use. If not, then no, a man does not make love the reproaches and demands. Just make conclusions for themselves.
Like "a friend is known in trouble", the man known in an extreme situation. Of course, you shouldn't throw a check and create such a situation. But if you, God forbid, of course - were in a difficult life situation, only then you will be able to see whether a man likes. Hide if from time-to-time, throw in a difficult moment or fills his strong and reliable shoulder.
If a man loves - he'll show you what you mean to him, and will not leave from the answer. If a man loves - he will not disappear and reappear, he will always be around and you'll feel that you're not alone. If a man loves - he doesn't make a woman live with hope and to live with hope himself.
Loving man wants from the woman child. If a man loves truly, loves not himself in his love for the woman, he'll take the latter, sell your favorite car, will plow three jobs from dawn to dusk, but will make his beloved happy and in no need of.
Advice 2 : How to check if I love you
Every girl wants to be sure that her partner really loves her. However, to understand what's going on in someone else's soul, it is often almost impossible. However, there are a number of signs that enables us to understand that the man is really in love.
It happens that the man has signs of attention to the girl, but she could not understand how seriously he feels about her. If the young person is really interested in a girl, he will try to learn more about her, asking mutual friends. A sure sign of love at the same time will attempt to issue its own interest for curiosity.
Trite, but true: feelings men often gives his opinion. Even if it is in the other end of the room, his eyes will look for the object of his sympathy. When their eyes finally meet, in the eyes of men glow with joy and tenderness.
The most important indicator of the attitude of the young person is communication. If he goes to the girl at a fairly close distance, listens carefully to her words, asks questions, he's most likely really interested in it.
A characteristic feature of love is the desire to care for his beloved, to help and support her, worry about her health. A man in love wants the beloved to feel comfortable around him.
It so happens that the young man is constantly found in the way girls sometimes in the most unexpected places. However, he always blushes when he sees her. This is a clear sign of the birth of love.
The man says a lot with a girl, it seems that he can't stop talking. It is also an indicator of love, because he is clearly trying to arouse her interest.
If a man is really interested in a girl, he will try to find common interests and Hobbies. Since he already considers her a close friend, he will share with her their problems and worries. Thus, it creates a feeling of close connection with the object of your sympathy.
When a man is in love, he is always smiling to his beloved. And if she smiles in response, he will be in seventh heaven.
If a man talks about a really delicate things, sometimes even shares his childhood dreams and fears, he is truly in love. Thus, a man tells a girl that he was very comfortable in her company.
Sometimes a man in love begins innocently make fun of a girl, she may even seem that he is purposely trying to push her buttons. In fact, this is just one of the ways to attract her attention. In addition, it may be an attempt to make her laugh.