A man can deceive with words, but his eyes were not deceived. If he loves you, it is reflected in his eyes. You just look him in the eyes and read in them love and tenderness. The only "but": we must not confuse loving the look with the look of a man who is experiencing a passion. Because passion (love) and love is not the same thing. The sight of a loving man warms you with its warmth, while the sight of a man in love a lot. His eyes glisten, as if to devour you. Love is heat, passion, fire. Therefore, passion (love) burns out quickly, leaving nothing but ash and pleasant memories. Even easier to identify by sight the man who is indifferent or cold to you. He avoids looking at you and the look you will find warmth and tenderness. Nothing but the cold.
According to difficult to determine, does your man really is. The fiery words of a man in love who is experiencing a passion, is easily mistaken for love. Therefore, women who believe only the words, often get burned. When a man says to his love, and says she can't live without you, he cannot be guilty of lying. Because he may be in love myself and to believe sincerely. Or just know how to speak beautifully. This is especially true of philanderers who know that "the woman loves ears." But if so, you will feel falsity. So you need to trust your feelings more than words. If you're talking about his love, but he remained silent, this is not necessarily a sign that he doesn't like you. Maybe he just doesn't know how to Express love words. But expresses love in actions and deed, care for you. Or he believes that to talk about love and show affection is a weakness. This is especially true of men-macho.
It tends to be more often with you and likes spending time together. Of course, this does not mean that he will cease to communicate with their friends. But he finds a reason to go somewhere together, and people trying to be near you. He likes your companionship, and your opinion is important to him. However, even in loving couples there are periods when they get tired of each other's company. Especially when they are locked in a narrow world of their relationship. So do not blame the man, that he devotes much time to the friends or hobby, or just want to be alone. You both must be some kind of personal space, this is the best way not to get tired from each other.
He cares about the people you love - parents, friends, and he tries to find common language with them. He introduces you to his friends. But even more sure sign that he loves you - if you are a divorced woman or a single mom, and he loves your child. Because the child is part of you. If he wants to meet up just the two of us, perceives child as a burden, pretends it doesn't exist, or he loses interest in you, learning about the child - it is a sure sign that he really likes.
He plans your future together. If he acts like you each by itself (just met and ran away) - this looks serious. Of course, if you are quite a long time. Although I must say, the family is not the only form of relationship. Sometimes he and she are Dating, not living together and living our lives. The question is, is this your preference and whether you do this in ten years. Separately can be said about marriage, when the woman - the mistress. If he promises to divorce and marry you but has not taken any steps, no need to deceive ourselves. He's comfortable in such a situation, you're wasting your time. As well as the opportunity to meet a man who will love you so much that you were the only one for him.
He loves you for who you are. Not much complex about small Breasts or excess weight, and admires your miniature figure or your curvaceous. In addition, loves you not only for looks, but also loves your character. Love to see you natural, without make-up, and when you Wake up with messy hair. (Just do not abuse this.)
You just feel that he loves you. If so, you don't need any words, and no other evidence. You just feel loved and don't doubt it. But, if that were true, you would not be reading this article, right?
So you can use a different method, based on intuition. Just ask him a direct question if he loves you. The main thing - not his answer, but how he behaves. Assigns it the look, if strained, drew the issue into a joke or grinning, as he honest, etc. However, this method has one drawback: men do not like this question. Them very annoying when a woman constantly asks "do you love me?" You can tell the women of their most annoying it. If you want to know the answer to your question, ask. But only one time.
To find out if he loves you by actions. Love has many definitions, because each person loves in their own way. But still, when a man loves, he cares, tenderness, support you and care for you. This is a more sure sign than words. "I want to know a person - look at his actions." The only "but": if not, don't blame the man, that he is not paying you attention. Moreover, you should not demand from the man some actions toward you. It's no use. If not, then no, a man does not make love the reproaches and demands. Just make conclusions for themselves.
Like "a friend is known in trouble", the man known in an extreme situation. Of course, you shouldn't throw a check and create such a situation. But if you, God forbid, of course - were in a difficult life situation, only then you will be able to see whether a man likes. Hide if from time-to-time, throw in a difficult moment or fills his strong and reliable shoulder.
If a man loves - he'll show you what you mean to him, and will not leave from the answer. If a man loves - he will not disappear and reappear, he will always be around and you'll feel that you're not alone. If a man loves - he doesn't make a woman live with hope and to live with hope himself.
Loving man wants from the woman child. If a man loves truly, loves not himself in his love for the woman, he'll take the latter, sell your favorite car, will plow three jobs from dawn to dusk, but will make his beloved happy and in no need of.
Advice 2: How to check whether love husband
Yesterday the day and you could not live without each other to live, and now the relationship became cooler. It is unclear what lies behind men's detachment – the risk of breaking or just plain fatigue. What to do to check the feelings?
Even perfect at first glance, the unions have their UPS and downs. You may have come to a temporary cooling period, you should not panic. Consider the situation from all sides, try to be objective.
What provokes your doubts about your husband's feelings? He stopped to give flowers lingers in the evenings, and spends weekends with friends? Make sure that your alarm is not farfetched. For example, if the husband has to work a busy period, it is necessary to spend more time there, and your jealousy has no real basis.
Ask your husband to help you with the housework, bring it to family court. For a long time whether he was interested in school grades son? Maybe you have too much on himself, and he was eliminated so as not to disturb you to be in charge. Let him know that they need care and attention, then his attitude to you will become obvious.
Spend the weekend together, have a romantic weekend. These days will not prevent you from daily worries. The mood of man, his behavior and even the way he will accept this offer, you can learn a lot. A loving person always ready to enliven the senses, putting aside problems.
Go on a little trick. Throw a party with friends, there will certainly be together with your spouse. Let old friends watch you. Does it not seem to them that your relationship has become more restrained? Sometimes third-party judgments bring a lot of useful information that the man himself just can't miss.
Still, the best way to check your feelings – ask them directly. Say that you have doubts and suspicions and you don't want to deal with them alone. In any case you can count on the honesty of a spouse, together you will overcome a difficult period, because marriage is dear to you both.